I'll try to be as detailed as I can so if there is a woman out there interested in the majority of this situation/relationship.

Ideally I would like to meet a younger woman who may have a thing for older men or the idea of spending time with someone older intriguing. After we've messaged, spoken/voice notes, met socially (whilst going more in-depth with the following), my hope is to find someone who would visit (I can host but open to visiting each other) over a weekend. The duration is flexible so could start with just a day and maybe extend to overnight.

The FWB part would be meeting for the occasional drink after work or going to watch a film, staying in with a takeaway and watching a series/season of something you'd like or even playing a game (PS5 owner). Although I live in South Essex, I work in London, so may suit someone in that general area.

The Dom/sub aspect would be a greater spectrum and all within the confines of my/your home (depending on your fantasies/kink exploration) as well as blend in with watching a show you like or games you enjoy. This would also include how you'd be dressed, how comfortable you would be surrendering yourself to have your body worshipped/caressed, teased or to entertain by masturbating as I watch or I use toys for your and my pleasure.

If you're in your twenties (not set in stone), single, willing to travel and freely open to discuss more of what I have proposed, I'd definitely like to get to know you but you'll have to be willing and able to message almost daily before we exchange specifics about each other and decide to meet.

A description of me is below and I would appreciate it is reciprocated when you initially message.

Me: 44, white/olive skinned, 5'10", trimmed beard, black hair, brown eyes, bit of a dad bod, city professional, live (alone) close to my local train station, friendly and discreet.