I'm looking to meet a woman who's comfortable in her own skin, knows what she wants and isn't looking for a conventional relationship. Yes this is an FWB post but I feel that terminology is a bit restrictive and doesn't really get across the dynamic I'm looking for.

I'd like to meet someone who's comfortable knowing the fact that I'm in an ethically non monogamous marriage. This is pretty key as I feel that accepting this will allow us to experience raw intimacy with no judgement.

I'm British of South Asian heritage - This in itself has always been a complex identity (for me anyway - happy to discuss this on a deeper level of you like), even though I navigate the world through the lens my western life, there's much to gain from all cultures and it's still important to me although it doesn't define me.

So why non monogamy? Being raised in a (fairly religious) culture that didn't resonate with me had always left me questioning. Questioning faith, ideology, ethics, norms, culture and society. As I've grown, I've realised that things are not black and white. Non monogamy has given me the boundaries that allows my wife and I to each have our own sense of self whilst not jeopardising our commitment to each other.

I crave connections. I've always appreciated the female perspective, intimate or otherwise and it's something that I'd want to create with someone here. An open minded joint venture in exploring our desires whilst also having an honest emotional connection.

Sexually, I'd describe myself as vanilla but quite comfortable taking the lead and being dominant (non aggressive). I know what I like but am pretty easy going and always respectful.

I can't see likes so prefer a message via the shared Tele thingy handle above.

I'm only interested in people who either live in London or visit regularly enough for this to work.

There's a pic of me on one of my posts on my profile, but if you care to know, I'm 5'7", slim fit build and am not very hairy.

thanks for reading 😋