I'm not sure if I'd rather they do or don't now. Not that I'd want to fuck a dragon necessarily but hey, I'll try anything once!

Beyond that (hopefully) eye catching intro, I am a dom, seeking a sub which explains why I've posted here. But more about that after a little bio:

I play the drums, a bit of rugby and go to the gym so I'm not in terrible shape. I'm also a massive nerd - mainly comics, anime and fantasy though I can be interested in almost anything, especially if someone else is passionate about it. I love my emo and rock music and going to live gigs - you can find me in the moshpit.

I'm tall, brown hair, blue eyes, slight beard, oh and also I'm a lawyer so my 9-5 involves me dressed in a suit if that's your thing.

But as to what you came here for...

I've been a dom for around 7 years now. Hard, soft, ddlg, petplay - I've tried most things. I love taking control, earning someone's submission and occasionally forcing it when needed and agreed. I'm looking for someone who I can take out for dinner and nobody knows that you have the word "slut" written beneath your dress. Nobody knows that the little choker you wear covers my handmarks and nobody knows that if I can't wait to get you home I will be taking you in the bathroom here and now.

Ultimately though I feel that every dynamic is and should be different and it's important to find out what works for the people involved!

If you're looking for specifics my kinks include bondage, breath play, edging and denial, impact play, CNC, oral (giving and receiving), public play and anal plus more besides!

Limits are scat, gore, needles and anything illegal.

As to what I'm looking for that's an open ended question and I don't want to miss out on something that could be incredible by limiting what I'm looking for!

Ultimately though there needs to be a mental attraction as well as a physical one so I would like to have something in common with you to talk about outside of kink and be able to swap pictures.

If you like what you've read then feel free to send me a message and who knows where it will go from there...

• Trig