Hello!

This is a kinda long post so please bear with me.

I'm Sayem, I'm 28 and I live in East London. I've also never had a girlfriend, or any form of intimate relationship outside of close friends. I've never even been kissed, I'm sure you know the rest.

I am normal, as normal as someone can be, other than asking strangers on the internet to consider to have some form or experience with.

I suffer from social anxiety and similar; I'm not to confident and I have trouble meeting new people. Due to my lack of experience, whenever confronted with the possibility of seeing someone as more than a friend I get caught like a deer in headlights. Insecurities, self doubt, pressure etc sets in and puts me on the back foot. I can't expect things to change if I don't do anything about them.

In truth, the reason I'm posting here is because I finally want to have some experience with a women that all i'm asking for.

Features:

• I video game. Not as much as I used to. (Switch Gamer)
• I don't smoke or 420, but I don't hold anything against those who do either.
• I'm quite open minded. I like cultural things, and feel lucky living close to a capital of culture.
• I won't outshine you in photos.

Specs:

• 28, I'm roughly 5'10" and average build.
• Lives in East London, commutes to the City.
• Works in the FinTech Sector
• Started to get active to improve my body and fitness.
• Humour is on the dry, witty side.
• I listen to all sorts of music / watch various type of Movies / TV
• This isn't a throwaway, had this account for ages.
• Due to work schedules, I'm not always available but I can make something work

Yes, I figure this might cause confusion. The whole point of this is that I get comfortable with someone who's comfortable being with me. I don't expect your life story, but I don't want a series of blind/speed date encounters either. Although, the odd role play or a speed/blind date as a test sounds fun.

If you read this far then message me, because I probably owe you a drink for getting through all that.