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43 [M4F] #North London, friendship, intimacy openness
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Incognito-Alien is a male age 43 looking for a female in north
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This is probably a tiny slice of all the things rattling away in my mind, but I'm forever curious and inquisitive so if you've got this far, I'd love to hear from you.

I'm looking to meet a woman who's comfortable in her own skin, knows what she wants and isn't looking for a conventional relationship. This is an FWB post but I feel that terminology is a bit restrictive and doesn't really get across the dynamic I'm looking for.

I'd like to meet someone who's comfortable knowing the fact that I'm in an ethically non monogamous marriage. This is pretty key as I feel that accepting this will allow us to experience raw intimacy with no judgement.

About me, I'm British of South Asian heritage - This in itself has always been a complex identity, but it is what it is so I navigate the world devoid of eastern values whilst living my western life. It's still important to me altho doesn't define me.

So why non monogamy? Being bought up in a culture I didn't really agree with had always left me questioning. Questioning faith, ideology, ethics, norms, culture and society. As I've grown, I've realised that things are not binary. Non monogamy has given us the boundaries to have each have our own sense of self whilst not jeopardising our commitment to each other.

I crave connections. I've always appreciated the female perspective, intimate or otherwise and it's something that I'd want to create with someone here. An open minded joint venture in exploring our desires whilst also having an honest emotional connection. Sexually, I'd describe myself as vanilla but have been told I lean towards a DOM/Daddy persona. I know what I like but am pretty easy going and always respectful.

Physically, I try to lead an active lifestyle and prioritise my health and body. There's a pic on my profile to give you an idea ofbwhat I look like physically, can exchange face picks once we chat.

This is probably a tiny slice of all the things rattling away in my mind, but I'm forever curious and inquisitive so if you've got this far, I'd love to hear from you.

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