Hellooooo 😊

So this is my first time posting on Reddit, came here as a last resort as I’m sick of dating apps, scammers and catfish. Probably going to experience the same thing here but willing to give it a try.

I am really shy, but we all know the phrase ‘the quiet ones are always worst’ right? 😅 I feel like that is the perfect way to sum me up.

I’m looking for a male at least the same age or older than me (anywhere up to around 45 years old), preferably into similar kinks to me (rather discuss these in private but they all fall within in the light/medium-bdsm, ddlg categories). I’m hoping for someone decently attractive but as long as you have a decent head of hair I’m not too fussy. I do have a preference for white and East Asian men. I would definitely prefer someone close by or someone who travels near me often as I do need that physical aspect. Places like London/Wales are probably too far as I’m in North East England and I don’t drive and work full time.

I don’t have a whole lot of experience with BDSM so ideally wanting someone who knows what they’re talking about. Treat me like a blank canvas as I love to learn! Had a couple of online DDLG relationships online when I was a lot younger but haven’t since then so definitely in need of a refresh and some training. One thing I really like dressing up in cute lingerie and outfits and would love to have someone who can help me pick out some more as I only have a few choices at the moment. Never really got a chance to experience the IRL aspects of the dynamic because the relationships I did have were long distance as much as I enjoy that I do need the physical intimacy to be satisfied as you can only really get so much gratification online and to be honest I’m bored of my toys. 😅 I’m very submissive, not at all bratty as I much prefer to be a ‘good girl’.

Looks wise I’m pale,5’7, big blue eyes, mid-size figure, definitely thicker on the hips and thighs, C cup, couple of tattoos on my legs, septum piercing and ginger/brown hair. I’ve always been told I look younger than I am with most people saying I look around 22-24 years old. I’m also bicurious, never been with a woman but definitely attracted. I would say that I do have a high sex drive and now that I’m single again I’m struggling a little bit.

SFW me; I’m into anime, movies, drawing, big into music - particularly 80’s music and a bit of a foodie. I’m definitely a night owl so don’t be offended if I don’t reply early in the morning. I love to travel, visit art galleries and going to gigs.

If you have read all of this, thank you and also if you message me please specify where you’re from and a basic of your appearance and personality ☺️