I know, that title probably doesn't do a good job of convincing but if you're interested then hear me out my dude.
So I'm a top guy based in London, I'm bi but there's a slight hang up - anal isn't really my thing. Buttstuff, as nice as it can be, isn't something I commonly enjoy. I've been with some cute guys but nothing is worse than being with someone who can quite clean out properly or isn't quite loosening themselves up properly and then trying to top them feels like trying to stick two South poles on a magnet together.
I had an FTM friend with benefits in a city I previously lived in - a ridiculously lovely guy and an amazing bottom/sub. And I miss that, having a dude I can chill with, game with and when the mood strikes, fuck like rabbits. I've tried the arrangement with cis men but I just don't enjoy anal anywhere near as much as the front hole if you get my drift.
The ideal guy for me would be someone geeky, a gamer or weeb for instance, but I'm open minded. As long as you can tolerate nerdy trash we should get along just fine! I'm pretty kinky, and while kink play isn't an absolute must, its definitely a tasty incentive while playing. Body type-wise, my tastes are also similarly broad. I'm into twinks, big guys and everything in between so whether you're sticc or thicc don't feel that your body would put me off, more than anything, I'm interested in someone I can gel well with.
I unfortunately can't host, but I can travel with relative ease. I could potentially be open to splitting a hotel with the right guy, too. I'm off work til the weekend, but next week onwards I'll only be free on weekends until I'm next off. Could be a good opportunity to build rapport in the meantime though I suppose!
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