I’m looking for something a little unusual. If I’m going to find it anywhere, surely it’s Reddit!

I’m 34 and married, and everyone I know is settling down and starting families. I miss the days where we talked about our sex lives and dating. Maybe you can be the person who can fill the gap in my life for salacious gossip?

I’d like to find someone open-minded and still in the phase of your life where you have plenty of stories to share about your sexual adventures. You can think of me like your confidant, someone who you tell all the details with no fear of judgement. In fact, the more you tell me, the happier I’ll be. I want to hear about your crushes, your flirtations, your one-night stands, your relationships, your fantasies, the best sex you’ve had, the worst sex you’ve had, and whether you ended up going home with the guy you had a date with last night.

Part of this is also about me wanting you, even though we both know that I'm never going to get to have you. You'll probably enjoy making me feel jealous with all the stories that you tell me. Jealous of your adventures, but also jealous that the men in your stories get all to live out things with you that I only get to fantasise about.

I don’t want the dynamic to be limited to just sex. If you’re the right partner then we’ll also click as friends, enjoy learning about one another and hearing about our everyday lives.

I’m hoping that you are:

• Smart, articulate, and curious
• Interested in people and new experiences
• Younger than me
• Having good, frequent sex
• In it for more than a few days
• Attractive

What do I have to offer? I am:

• A good conversationalist
• Interested in you as a person, as well as in your sex life
• Well educated, ambitious, and successful in my career
• Physically attractive
• Emotionally intelligent
• Not having as much sex as I would like

This will be an online only thing to start, but I'm open to meeting in person if we click.