When you read this, I want you to focus and visualise. No distractions. Imagine this scenario. You are a woman with a strong and feisty personality. You hold an upstanding place in society and walk with your head held up high. Others come to you for advice and support. Yet, the burdens of the day weigh heavily on your mind and soul. You seek a pillar to lean against. A person to support you. Someone who you can turn towards for advice...and control. There are times when you want someone to hold your hand and take the weight off your feet. To treat you like a girl and care for you. Someone to hold you and in these moments, you want the pleasure of submission to wash over you where the burden of control is taken away. The persuasion of the mind slowly slips into perversion of the soul. You want to submit. You crave the sweet forbidden pleasures of lust. Your groin is on fire. You can feel your twisted desires manifest as your panties become moist. Your mind is slowly slipping. Your body is warm. Your lips are quivering. Your nipples are perked. Your pupils are dilated. You need someone to hold your hips and grab your crotch. To flick your nipples as you gasp in desperation. Your mind is pulled deeper into the currents of perversion. A firm hand slowly lifts your chin and as you look up, you see the man who is your pillar, your giver and your keeper. You have found your place at his feet where you can lose your veil of decency and engage in debauchery.

I am looking for a particular kind of sub who is based in Hampshire or London since I travel frequently between these two areas although I am based in Hampshire for most of the week. A female who has a strong personality but has a deep desire to submit in private. Someone who presents a prim and proper image in public to their friends but in private, craves for depravity and kinky acts which would put a blush on their face when they are reminded of this contrast between these two faces of theirs. I particularly like confident women and brats. If you have pent up sexual energy, deep kinky desires and enjoy being in subspace, you are the sub that I am looking for.

The kinks that I am looking for include bondage (would like to try predicament bondage as well), humiliation, orgasm control, edging, discreet risky play, sensory deprivation and spanking. I am open to most kinks aside from anything illegal, permanent scars and knives.

I am a 33 year old man in Hampshire, UK. I have my own place. I would say that I am a hard dom as well as being a brat tamer. I like looking after the sub and making sure that she is emotionally and physically happy. Her overall happiness is very important to me. I very much enjoy deep philosophical conversations, modern history and keeping fit. I would like the sub to be someone who shares these interests as well. I would like to meet up for a coffee and just hang out to see how we get along first before anything else. I absolutely believe in connecting on an emotional and physical level before proceeding to kink.

If you are interested, send me a message and we can talk. I am waiting for you.