27 year old trans man in the east of England, subby as shit. I've put 4A because I'm attracted to all genders, but I find sex with people with vulvas quite dysphoric so I'm expecting mostly cis men to respond - however, trans people, hit me up for some hot T4T shit!

I'm looking for BDSM encounters that put me in my place and take what I know I really want, but don't express on the surface in standard hookups. Keep pounding my cunt even though it hurts and I'm begging you to stop, slap my clit until I cry, that kind of thing.

Major kinks include cock worship, pussy torture (especially spanking and other impact play, because I just can't do it hard enough myself!), bondage, orgasm control / denial / forced, and more.

There are lots of fun scenarios I enjoy that we could work into it, but the roleplay aspect is less important to me than the physical aspect.

If you're not local, I'm also interested a little in being set tasks to complete or having remote toys controlled. But I'm heavily limited in that because I live with housemates, so someone nearby would be better. London might be possible for the next few days but not beyond that, really.

Limits: misgendering / invalidation, body shaming, any toilet stuff or anything unsanitary, feet, marks visible outside clothing (face, arms, legs, etc), anal, age play, race play

Safewords and pics to be established beforehand obviously, meeting in a neutral place, etc. Also FYI, I can't stand or kneel for long periods of time due to childhood surgeries on my legs.