Such a seemingly innocuous question...so why does it involve such a range of reactions?

We're often contacted here (and elsewhere) by people who offer very little information about themselves in their messages (or profile) and in an attempt to actually get to know them, we ask this question, and I'd say we get ghosted (or even blocked) about 50% of the time - which is slightly frustrating when we've been open, honest and laid ourselves bare in our post and/or profile.

Are you willing to answer this seemingly really difficult to answer question? Well then, read on...

About us:

We're a couple but not in the conventional sense, we are having an affair together, so you could call us non-traditional or non-conformist, but we are a couple and together in our own way. This isn't for everyone and if it's not for you, we completely understand.

Looks-wise:

Him: M is 37, 6’4”, straight, dark hair, refers to himself as having a dad bod with an average dick that’s girthy and smooth (which V is very complimentary of). Interests: indie/rock, films, motorsports, gaming and random things. Located: North West

Her: V is 44, 5’8”, heavily bi-curious, curvy ("yes I’ve a tummy on me" she says), natural looking "enhanced" tits and absolutely covered in ink, with a pierced tongue and changeable hair colour. Interests: indie/rock, documentaries, formula 1, Wicca and crystal things. Located: West Midlands

We're looking for a woman that we can have ongoing in-person fun with, not just a flash in the pan - ideally we'd like someone curvy and also in a relationship however, if you're discreet and there's mutual attraction between us then that could work too.

So, if this is something which interests you and you're willing to answer this oh-so-divisive question, send us a message telling us a bit about you and include the word "Excellent" to confirm you've read and are happy with the fact we're having an affair.

If things work out, we like to do group chats on 👻 so we can all get to know each other and verify we are who we say with a live pic (we only use that as we've had bad times on other apps and won't be returning to them). We're open to starting online but would definitely want to have the opportunity for real life meets, so please be within a reasonable distance.

M & V