In both cases I love being in control and fucking people over. The only thing is if I bent someone over in a court room the judge may not like it (or maybe they will - it's often those you least expect).

Who am I I hear you cry? Weekdays I'm a fully suited and taking on legal briefs. When I want to relax I'll go to the gym, swim in the sea, play the drums and occasionally game a little.

Other interests and passions include rock/alt music and going to gigs (the past year I've been to BMTH, Soft Play, Bad Omens and I'm seeing Sleep Token). I enjoy sports with a love for rugby and occasionally play a little, oh and I'm a big ol' nerd with a love of comics, anime, fantasy et al. If you need a recommendation then hit me up!

But behind all this and what the general public see there's something more, something which again not everyone would expect...

I'm a dom and have been since my early 20s. I tried switching but it's not for me. Taking that control helps me relax, almost meditative, and I love creating a safe, fun and pleasurable dynamic. My experiences petplay, ddlg, soft dom and hard domming and whilst I enjoy and remain open to all right now I'm finding myself enjoying being a pleasure dom, edging and denying...

There's so many other things I enjoy but a quick list would be bondage, public play, CNC, oral, choking breath play,impact play and corruption. There's plenty more besides so if there is something you especially enjoy just say.

Hard limits for me are scat, gore and anything illegal.

Looks wise I'm tall, I'd like to think I'm decent shape, blue eyes, brown hair and bearded. Whilst not the most important thing, mutual attraction is still important to me so I'd be happy swapping sfw pictures when we're both comfortable.

I'm fairly open with what I'm looking for as every dynamic is different and I'd hate to miss out on something by limiting my options. Ultimately if you're a passionate person able to chat and connect outside of kink as well as enjoy what a dynamic has to offer then I'm definitely interested! Any age, level of experience, monogomous or poly - and whilst I'm not looking for a romantic relationship right off the bat if there's a connection then never say never.

It's been a long read and I bet you just couldn't wait for the end so if you've read this far and are still interested I look forward to hearing from you!

• Trig