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For those that live a busy life, here is a TL;DR for you. I’m an experienced, active, logical, intellectual empathetic Dom located in Nottingham, UK. I value trust, Integrity, and Accountability. I’m looking for a fun kinky dynamic first and relationship second with masochistic slave type women.

About me:

Appearance:

I’m 34, brown hair and eyes, active/thin/athletic with good cheekbones so I’ve been told. I’m 5 '9/175 cm weighing 10.7st/68kg. Non-smoker, social drinker, fully vaccinated and clean/DDF. I exercise often but mostly during summer.

Personality:

Introverted extrovert, love going out but tend to talk to few close friends. Highly competitive but not victory obsessed, always try to do my best at everything I do. I’m caring, honest, mature, easy to talk to and a very good listener. Patient and open-minded. Love language is acts of service, I know, ironic since I’m looking for a sub to service me, and physical touch.

Interests:

Outside of kink I’d say my interests are quite vanilla. I love to play PC or board games, watch TV/Movies, Fallout and Dune 2 being my two recent and most favourite media. I’m a huge cyclist when the weather is warmer, curse this rainy spring! Music tastes vary depending on my mood so it's not one or another. The only odd thing is I love active travel, I try to walk/hike/cycle wherever I’m trying to get to, if that's a night out or a friend's house.

Day to Day:

I live alone in my own home, which is a bit of a fixer upper, thus spending some of my free time on that. I work remotely in IT, which gives me lots of down time and energy to put into projects/people. Financially independent and healthy. A D/s dynamic is very important to me and it would be a 24/7 requirement, with plenty of open communication.

About you:

While I am looking for a salve type submissive, I’m not after a doormat. I want someone who desires to give up control but won’t make that her personality. Someone who is highly emotional to help balance the logical side of myself. Someone loyal, kind and caring. Someone who wants to be looked after.

Being physically active would also be a huge plus, going on long walks or hikes and maybe even a bike ride or too. I have a lot of stamina and would like someone who could match that.

Only huge deal breakers are smokers, not being vaccinated, history of cheating, general right wing perspectives.

Location wise it would be amazing if you were Nottingham based, (it has happened before) but ideally the Midlands region is also perfect.

Kink:

As said I have 10 years of experience with multiple partners, both new and experienced themselves. That said I quite enjoy being someone's first, goes hand in hand with my desires to look after others. I love being able to provide that safe learning environment for someone new to this lifestyle to learn and explore.

My top kinks would be orgasm control and denial, TPE, rituals/protocols, humiliation/degradation, praise, service, training, bondage. My dynamics are more sexually orientated, so the more time you spend in horny jail the more we will end up doing.

While not a kink, I do enjoy people who are able to open themselves completely to me, and share their deepest darkest fantasies, ties in very much with the need for plenty of open communication.

But as said, nothing happens without discussing it first, I do love respecting healthy boundaries in all relationship types.

Hard limits are few. My interests are more of a sliding scale of what I like, but ABDL, diapers, and scat are a few that are definite no goes.

That’s if folks, if I sound like someone you want to get to know, send me a message with your name and explanation as to why red is your favourite colour. And lets get chatting!