Introduction:

Hi! I'm a 28 year old guy currently living in NW London in the UK.

I'm using a throwaway account for this because it's 100% SFW over on my main, and because well it's rather embarrassing. Making this post isn't the embarrassing part just to be clear, I mean some of the bad jokes and memes I've made over on the other account are just too shamefully awful to share with people who might want to talk to me here.

That being said I'm a very open person and I'm happy to share things about myself (within reason of course, you can ask 100 times over for my mashed potato recipe but I'm sorry you can't have it).

I've included what I hope is enough information about myself below but if you'd like more then all you need to do is ask, and I'd also be happy to learn more about anyone who might reach out to me as well.

I'm a switch, with most of my experience there being on my dominant side, but quite frankly I feel like I'm more comfortable with my submissive side, it is however something I'm lacking in experience with.

What I'm looking for:

Regardless of the nature of our interactions, I'm looking for someone kind and communicative with a sense of humour. I'm looking for any of the following:

• A Teacher (more experienced domme who would be open to instructing me when it comes to pleasing/body worship, and help me explore my submissive side)
• A romantic partner (this is the thing I have the strongest desire for, but I'm aware that I'm a work in progress so to speak, and that there are other things in life that have meaning too).
• Friends (whether conversational, dirty, cuddle buddies, social, or otherwise).
• Play Partner (for anything we end up having a mutual interest in doing)

Vanilla me:

Personality: I'm a considerate, friendly, compassionate, and playful person who is primarily driven by my anxiety and desire to make others happy.

Hobbies: cooking, painting other crafty things, gaming, puns, music/films/shows. I'm not a smoker and I don't drink (but might be open to doing so with/for someone I trust), though I am a recovering chocaholic. I'm also currently volunteering a couple of times a week, and trying to maintain doing 10k steps or an equivalent amount of exercise each day.

Random selection of things I like: butterflies, owls, cuddles, the idea of being an all powerful dimension shifting wizard, fun facts, even more cuddles, chocolate, lychees, onigiri, pizza, the lack of hunger I'm currently feeling after taking a break from writing this to get something to eat, discussions of ethical quandaries, making things for people, space.

Physical details:

I'm 5'7, have hazel eyes, short-ish black hair, white and pale as an anaemic ghost, skinny with a bit of belly, a short beard, some scars that would be considerably less cool sounding if I spilled the beans on where they are and how I got them, average sized cock, a decent amount of body hair, and two left feet.

Mint Choc Chip Kinky me:

I've only had two in person experiences as a submissive, the first failed spectacularly because of just generally poor communication between myself and the other person due to inexperience (I didn't have much general experience back then either) and the second one could never work out because the other person turned out to believe that Shrek The Third is the best Shrek film, when it's obviously Shrek Forever After.

Likes:

• Cuddles/physical contact. I'm a very physically affectionate person generally and it's something I enjoy in the bedroom (or whichever room really) as well. If it was down to me I'd spend every waking minute in snuggly oblivion. I cannot overstate how much I love hugs, snugs, and cuddles.
• Edging/orgasm control/forced orgasms. I have very limited experience being on the receiving end of this but I'm reasonably sure I'd enjoy exploring it more.
• Being wanted/desired. Whether as a person, a pillow, or just as a cum dispenser, I want to feel wanted.
• Being on the bottom. I absolutely adore being on the bottom whether for snugs or sex. It ties into wanting to be wanted as the person on top is taking me, and also my want to be controlled.
• Being cared for. I never want to feel like I'm a worthless bug and am most definitely not into humiliation. I want to form a healthy bond with my domme and to me that involves mutual trust, respect, and care. If you want those things too then you should know that it's a two way street.
• Body worship. I'm big on tits, thighs, and necks (or I guess, neck singular? if you're a hydra and got this far, then please know that I appreciate your interest, but I don't think things will work out, and wish you well in your search).
• I'm big on pleasing, and getting others off gets me off too, so whatever you're wanting there's a good chance I'll be into it regardless just for that aspect. There are few things I find more fulfilling in life than pleasing others.

Curious to try:

• Bondage/tie and tease.
• Assertive sex, you know what you want and you're going to get your way.
• Being blindfolded. This ties into the tie and tease.
• Roleplay (I have experience with roleplay, but in this case I moreso mean roleplay specifically as a submissive for the sake of exploring kinks and fantasies that I or my partner has).

I'm open to exploring generally speaking so if there's anything specific, let me know.

Hard limits:

• Anal play on me.
• Scat/piss/blood/knife/etc play, anything involving disgust or danger.
• Forced bi.
• Humiliation/extreme degradation.
• Pain beyond the light kind.
• Sissification/feminisation.

I've probably missed something off this list, and the same for things I like, so if there's anything you're curious about, please do feel free to ask. I'm aware that most dommes are likely to be into at least one of the above, but they're hard limits for a reason. I will be respectful of your boundaries, and I ask for the same from you.

Conclusion/communication:

Thank you for taking the time to read this, and I look forward to hearing from any interested dommes, whether they want to get in contact to get to know me better.

To show that you've actually ready my post, please include a comment or observation about something you liked (or disliked) from the post in your initial message. It works to show you're genuine, and also acts as a nice jumping off point :)

I primarily use Discord and Whatsapp for talking to people but I'm happy to use whichever method for communication works best for you, except smoke signals because as previously mentioned I don't smoke.