I'm the man you wouldn't expect. I'm friendly, charming, seemingly innocent and you would never expect me to have any interest in the BDSM world, something which gives me the edge.

I love this world and want to explore it alongside a sub who is happy to have me as their Dom. The BDSM style I lead is mixed, I prefer the emotional and mental stimulation involved in the process which does also go with the physical aspects. This ranges from you feeling the need to seek my approval, fulfilling my requests to do and say what I want and need, but also the physical side. The being tied up and blindfolded, with the only sensation being the sounds of where I am, the delicate touch of one finger on your body, my breath on your skin, the cold metal of a particular toy running up your thigh as you whimper and mind races. That is the tension and suspense I crave.

I'm an understanding, caring and affectionate person and would never request that you do anything you're uncomfortable with - I will ensure that you are happy and comfortable after any exchange in whichever way you need, and I would also promote safe words. But I want to be there to guide you further into the world to explore things together respectfully.

My interests should you wish to know, range from simple bondage (tying up etc.) to choking, orgasm control, praise, anal, public humiliation, cnc, etc. I'm open to most things with some obvious hard limits like most.

I'm looking for someone who is interested in the above, and who is mentally on the same wave length. I have no requirements for age or looks, but I appreciate a sub who takes care of herself and wears a smile well. Ideally you would be UK based and this would be online, with a view to moving to something physical if we both wish. I am still open to online if you're not UK based though.

I'm a 29 year old British guy, 6ft6 tall with an active lifestyle, average build and a face that's easy on the eyes. I will disclose that what I seek must be discrete. I am married but this is not a world my wife wishes to explore. Hopefully this post sings to you and you feel as though I am your match. If that's the case, then let me know. I'm happy to chat on whichever platform is easiest, and to share pics.

Big S.