Hi! So, I once met an amazing person on an R4R subreddit and we had a fantastic relationship that lasted a couple of years. Unfortunately, things didn't work out in the long run, so I thought I'd post again and see if I can meet another amazing person here! I have no problem finding dates in the real wold, but I generally find it really rather challenging to meet somebody at random with the same extracurricular interests as me, and I’m hoping I might have some more luck here (again!).

So, physically, I’m 29 years old, 6ft tall, blond, bearded, with a "dad bod" (for want of a better term 😂). Personality wise I'm a very driven person. I know what I want, and I'm exacting in the way it's achieved. I've had a successful career thus far, and I'm one of those strange people who thrives off of pressure & stress. I run a tech startup, and constantly sprinting for delivery is what keeps me feeling alive. Outside of work, I keep a couple of different circles of friends, and we're out an awful lot for dinners, drinks, talks, etc. If you haven't guessed already, I'm an enormous extrovert and I love meeting new people. My social life is extremely active and I have no intention to change that any time soon! Interests wise, I'm a keen motorcyclist, yachtsman, reader, skier, and shooter.

I tend to seek out BDSM focused relationships as I take great enjoyment from it, and I only really feel fulfilled when this part of me is satisfied. I'm reasonably experienced in this area having had several D/s relationships, and I've got a good idea of what I like. I've got experience in a wide range of kinks, and I thoroughly enjoy exploring new ones. I only have a few hard limits, all of which I'll be happy to discuss with you if we get that far! It hopefully goes without saying, but consent & aftercare are very important to me, and form a key part of all of this.

I would say my dominant side has two key components, and depending on what sort of sub you are depends on which side comes out. If you're bratty, I can be very strict and unrelenting. I like pushing hard and making someone regret their past disobedience. On the flip side if you're very sweet and needy I can be very caring. Sometimes these things combine really nicely when someone goes from being bratty, to being taken down a peg, to being a very sorry & sweet little needy sub. It really depends on how I feel towards you and what sort of person you are.

I’m extremely discreet about my bedroom interests, and I’d ideally like you to be as well (at least in the company of people I know). I’m DDF and would need you to be as well.

I don't want to cause any offence, but I also don't want to waste anybodies time, and these are just my preferences, but as far as physical types go I do tend to prefer women who are more towards the slimmer side of the spectrum (that doesn’t mean you need to be tiny, curves are fine haha).

If you’ve reached this point and you’re interested, I’d love to hear from you! Please feel free to drop me a message, I prefer chat to Reddit messages but realistically either is fine. Thank you for reading this far, and have a fabulous week!