Hi! Thanks for reading my post.

I’m a 29 year old guy from just outside London (but with great travel links to central, plus I drive), with a professional career, well rounded interests, and a pretty good life.

However, for years I have dreamt about having a partner who, behind closed doors, completely owns & emasculates me.

You know how, when you were young, sometimes the girls would try and get the boys to put on dresses? Those are some of my fondest memories. The embarrassment, the flip in control, and the mental games that ensued are something I have never forgotten.

This all effectively plays into a humiliation kink I have, whereby I absolutely love it when women laugh and jeer at my predicament. This extends into things such as chastity play, pegging, feminisation, service, spankings, and basically being forced to give up control in the most emasculating ways possible. I want a partner, long term, who takes the lead and tells me what to do. Someone who punishes me when I disobey them, and who rewards me when I’m obedient. I have a powerful job in normal life, and naturally take the lead in most situations. I usually get my way, and having a partner in my life who’s going to tell me no, and spank me for my disobedience is such a wonderful mind twist that it excites me to no end.

I want this to be a part of my life because I’ve dreamed about it so long now that I don’t think I can be in a healthy relationship without this angle. I want to be at work, wearing my suit, underneath which I’m locked in a chastity cage, with an uncomfortably large butt plug in, wearing the cutest little panties, suspender belt, and stockings, knowing that despite being in charge, I’m completely humiliated inside, and when I get home I’ll be spanked, possibly pegged, and will have to serve my partner.

An outline of my kink list is below, but I’m happy to share a more detailed one if you’d like! None of these are a must, and of course I’ll always be deferring to you, so these are just a preference!

• Spanking
• Pegging
• Forced feminisation
• Chastity
• TPE
• Butt plugs
• Bondage
• Predicament play
• Torture
• Tickling
• Obedience training
• Forced cum eating
• Foot worship
• Service (cleaning etc.)

If this interests you in any way please get in touch, I would love to hear from you. Have a wonderful day!