Hey r/gbr4r. Not my first time posting here, but this time, I'm looking for something quite different, so I'm open to responses from anywhere in the UK. Even if you live in the same area as me, I'm not looking to meet up with anyone from this post -- let's say I'm currently in my celibacy era -- so the only factor determining whether I'll respond to you or not is how exciting of a chat partner I think you would be. (And well, mutual attraction. That matters too. But I digress.)

Under this metaphorical mistletoe, I'd like us to share fantasies with each other. My fantasy goes as such: You'd be an older woman - or man - who enjoys the idea of encountering a nerdy know-it-all, coaxing her out of the library and turning her into your mindless ragdoll, her curvy body stripped bare and tied up for your eyes alone. You'd start off slowly. Seduce her mind first. How? Well, as a true misanthrope, she loves talking about death and she loves people who don't shy away from the morbid. She's also partial to more palatable topics - it's not all doom and gloom 24/7! - but more often than not, she enjoys tearing away the pretty wrapping on human existence and studying the rot that festers beneath the surface.

One day, you'd meet up at a bar. She'd be putty in your hands from the very first drink. You'd spend the whole night teasing her. Groping her. Making her *ache* from how badly she needs you. But you wouldn't give in. You'd walk her home, kiss her goodnight and leave her wet and wanting for you.

Following that, you'd spend the next few days driving her crazy over texts. You'll mix it up with some voice notes too - gotta keep her on her toes. Pictures of your hands gripping the sheets, if you're feeling particularly adventurous. Whatever the case, you'd forbid her from touching herself at any point. If she touches herself - well, that's another 24 hours before she's allowed to have any form of release.

Then, the big day. The culmination of the fantasy. She's a trembling wreck by the time you open the door and welcome her inside. You push her up against a wall without another word. Kiss her. Grind your knee between her shaking knees, pinning both her wrists above her head with one hand.

The next few minutes are a blur. She's made it into your bed, you're teasing every inch of her body through her clothes, but still - she is not allowed to come. You drag it out for an agonisingly long period of time. If she comes while you're teasing her, well - that's just even *more* teasing on the docket. You make her suffer for longer. When you, and you alone, have decided she's had enough, you begin to strip her bare, her over-sensitised body shivering at every touch. Your mouth lingers on one nipple, then the other. One finger gently flicks her clit, almost as if to say "I haven't forgotten about you".

You stop right as she's about to come. You pull back and then - and only then - do you pull out the rope. You're going to need it. By the time you finally give her permission to come, her limbs are going to be flying all over the place. It's nothing fancy - you and her are past the point of pretty patterns. It's a functional tie. Legs bound together in a kitschy mermaid tie, arms suspended above her head. She can't move. *Bingo*. You're not done though. You blindfold her too. Deprive her of her senses. You'd check in with her, just to make sure the fantasy is still making her heart thrum with excitement.

Once you get that dazed "mmhmm" in response, that's your sign to secure a vibe against her clit. Turn it on. And just like that, you step back. Your work is done - now she can come as many times as she wishes. Over and over again. Even when it begins to hurt, even when her clit tingles from overstimulation, you leave her there - a panting, trembling, whimpering flushed mess of nerves in your bed. You might use the sight for your own pleasure and begin to get yourself off. She wouldn't know - she can't see a thing, after all.

The scene ends when she says so. You turn off the vibe, free her from her restraints and hold her in your arms. You kiss her all over. You tell her she's been a good girl. And just like that, your work is done.

If this strikes a chord with you, reach out. Would vastly prefer to speak to dominant women, but I am open to men too -- just be normal, I beg. I'm not looking for RP, so don't open with that please. Not my thing. I've laid my fantasy out this way for stylistic purposes since I wanted to try something ✨new✨ and ✨exciting✨, but I'm looking for an actual conversation. Realistically, we probably get along like a house on fire for one night, maybe three if we're lucky, before forgetting the other's existence. There's no hard feelings -- life has a way of catching up on us when we least expect it. But in the off-chance that we actually end up becoming a small but permanent fixture in each others' lives, I have thoughts for how this little thing could develop (but that's a secret... come on, gotta leave *something* for the imagination, don't I?)

To narrow the responses down:

• **No cheaters, no ENMs, no exceptions.**

• If you describe yourself as a "gooner" or otherwise need porn to get off, this post isn't for you.

• My ideal is someone who is mostly vanilla-leaning (i.e. no extreme kinks) and entirely innocuous in their day-to-day but enjoys the D/s dynamic in private. If that isn't you, I likely won't respond

• In terms of the age range I'm looking for: 23 to 32, but there is a tiny bit of flexibility on both ends for the right person.

• In terms of appearance: I lean strongly towards white men, no strong racial preferences for women (although I do get particularly weak at the knees for South Asian women). In terms of body type, I'm open to most body types, but not overweight. In terms of facial features, I am a sucker for a nice pair of lips and a nice set of eyes. Bonus points for beards. Beyond that, all I care about is how vivid your mind is and how good you are at expressing it.

• I will not be responding to newly-made blank profiles, so don't waste your time.

• Another thing to consider: this would be a primarily sexual thing, but it would be nice if we could also interact as friends. I'm interested in building a connection, not just spewing sexual fantasies back and forth. (Bonus points if you're into the idea of playing video games together!)

• I don't want to see your nudes and I don't want you to ask for mine.

• As long as this post is up, I'm still looking.