Hi! So, I’m here because I’ve been finding it really rather challenging to meet someone in the real world with the same extracurricular interests as me, and I’ve had some good luck here in the past so I’m hoping I might find some again!

A bit about me, I’m 29, 6ft tall, blond hair, blue eyes, ginger-ish beard, dad bod, and very extroverted. I’ve got a good career in engineering, and outside of work I have a couple of large groups of friends I see regularly for dinners, drinks, talks, trips abroad etc. I adore museums, I love learning about new topics, and I thrive off of social interaction. I own my own house which seems like a never ending renovation project, and I’m pretty good at taking care of myself!

I’ve been in a couple of BDSM relationships in the past, my last one for just over two years, but they’ve all ended for various amicable reasons. I’ve also been in vanilla relationships, but whilst I’ve really liked the people, they just don’t do it for me. I need kink in my life to feel complete, and that’s why I’m here.

So, what am I into? Well, that’s become more complex as I’ve gotten older. I used to think I was a Dom, but as I’ve explored more I think I’d actually like to try being a sub. Things like chastity, butt plugs, pegging, being tied up, etc. all really interest me. I’m looking for a bit of a kinky unicorn I think, someone who’s up for trying new things and exploring the many angles of kink without too much judgement.

Outside of kink I’d love a relationship where we can sometimes leave it in the bedroom, and sometimes subtly take it into our every day lives. I’m exceptionally discreet about this sort of thing, so over public play is a hard limit, but there are non-obvious things we could do.

So, if that sounds like you, and you like the sound of me, I’d love to hear from you! Drop me a message and let’s see where this goes!