Hey there!

28M from the UK here looking to meet somebody new! I figured as whilst I don't have a hard time meeting new people, I've always been a hopeless romantic, and generally avoid traditional dating.

Looks-wise, I'm 5' 10 (for real I promise), and pretty skinny (I'm working on it!). I have long brown-hair that I keep tied up most of the time and glasses. I also have a tattoo and several piercings on my ears / nose. I like to think I have a good taste in fashion, and probably dress a bit more 'alternative', but nothing too crazy. Happy to send pictures when you message!

I'm not picky when it comes to looks, if the past is anything to go off, I fall for minds, not bodies! Forming a meaningful connection and getting to know someone on an emotional level often leads to attraction for me. I like to take things slow, so normal dating culture just hasn't appealed to me (one of the many reasons I've wondered if I'm possibly Demisexual!)

What am I looking for?

Ideally, I'd love to someone to share new things with; inspire and be inspired by, taking things slow, and hopefully developing into something more! The usual stuff: ;texting, voice / video chats, and then meeting. I _love_ passionate people, and I care deeply about the people in my life, trying to be their biggest cheerleader, encouraging them to pursue new things, and hopefully, leaving a positive impact on them :).

A bit about me!
My life is (for the most part!) pretty stable. I have a decent number of friends who I deeply care about,a 9 year long career as a software developer, my own place, and two cats; Kimchi & Nori.

📚 I’m a super passionate person, and get a lot of my fulfilment through learning new things and teaching others. Due to ADHD, interests fluctuate in intensity, but photography, houseplants, and interior design are the ones that’ve stuck! I've also been known to be a bit of a workaholic, but I'm actively working on finding a healthier balance, so that I don't become one of those people where it consumes their identity.

🖌️ In an attempt to find more creative outlets, I’m also learning about 3D modelling / printing / Architecture in my spare time! I'm also hoping to start pottery, so that I'm able to make my own ceramics! (I'm a sucker for aesthetic homewares and cute lil cups!!)

☀️ My happy place is when I’m surrounded by plants with a cat on my lap, reading a good book!

Im very passionate about music too, so here’s a few of my favourite artists at the moment:

Aphex Twin
Boards of Canada
MF DOOM
Lorn
Susumu Yokota
Martyn Yussef Dayes Alfa Mist
Burial

Thanks for taking the time to read ✨