Hi there,

As implied in my title, I'm in an ethically non-monogamous relationship, so would only be looking to connect with other poly-inclined people. That's important to put out as a disclaimer! Likewise that I'm searching solo, not looking to swing or unicorn hunt - my partner has another long-term partner besides me and is perfectly satisfied with that arrangement.

With that out of the way, about me: I'm 33, cis-male, 6'2" tall, glasses, (usually plaited) long blond hair, not particularly athletic, been described as a having a kinda nerdy viking look. Pretty introverted (thanks, social anxiety...), and quite likely non-neurotypical, though undiagnosed. Day-to-day smalltalk is pretty much my worst nightmare, but if you fancy animated discussions on topics of boardgames, DnD, rock and metal music, sci-fi and fantasy, politics, cute animals, or just meme shitposts it becomes much harder to shut me up.

From the Leicestershire area, happily living with partner and meta - means we're rarely short of players for boardgames, but glad to welcome others to the table! In fact, we aim for the kitchen table variety of polyamory, with the belief that it's much healthier in any configuration of relationship if all parties can get along with each other.

With regards to my sexuallity, I think that I fall under pansexual (and am comfortable with everything that may come with that), just so far have not found myself attracted to traditionally-masc presenting individuals. But emotional connection and compatibility are far more important to me than physical characteristics in the end. If I don't feel like I really get along with someone, I would never consider any kind of intimate relationship.

I am into kink, and as a switch, I'm flexible in my interests, though as someone with a dom-only partner, I have a growing interest in getting to know other switchy or sub-leaning folk. I appreciate the more relaxed, casual approach, and nothing's sexier than safety, sanity and consent when it comes to kink!

In general, I'm looking to connect with people relatively local. I've tried long distance dating in the past and it didn't really work out. I'd state my interested age range as around 23-35. I much prefer DM's to reddit chat - always happier to see a lengthy, well-thought out message than a single line "Hey, how r u?"

So, if I sound like I might be not a complete waste of your time, drop me a message. Maybe see if we can find some shared interests to gush about to avoid the abject horrors of awkward first introductions!