TLDR... I am here for FANTASTIC uncomplicated kinky sex. Specifically with a submissive women who can; communicate openly, without drama and on an adult level about the sex they want and the boundaries it falls within. My main kinks are communicative control, exposure / humiliation, impact training and watersports.

LOOKING FOR...A passionate and sexually adventurous woman. For (multiple) mutual leg shaking inducing orgasms. From slow sensual sex to ballistic balls deep cock riders. All within the realms of 'kink' The variety and type of sex depends on how we vibe together. I am multifaceted so I don't expect you to only have one mood & kink either.

Reddit is a meat grinder for male adds... So I'm here to stand out and find a women who makes the same effort...straight talking messages that are engaging and honest go to the top of my inbox.

ME... Caucasian complexion, short beard, tall (6'3), gym fit and a cheeky sense of humor ;) Here for a regular dom/sub dynamic. There are also pictures, stories and past posts on my profile which give a feel of my experience.

I have been exploring the kink scene for about 5 years and had several long terms dynamics over that, each unique and forfilling in its own right. I attend local munches and events and am known by people in the scene.

Outside of sex I am; Charismatic, educated, groomed, hygienic. I can hold a stimulating non sexual conversation. I'm also down to earth and drama free which helps.

Emotional maturity is my minimum entry requirement. With that in mind I’m tested semi frequently most recent – August 2023 “all clear”

I am in a long term sex positive ENM relationship, to make this work I communicate any planned meets with my partner. If this isn’t something you are comfortable with then stop here.

NEXT STEPS... I like to swap messages here before swapping numbers/DMs for apps and we can either send voice notes, call or arrange a place in public (you feel safe) to talk. If the chemistry carries face to face... we can get our kink on, so to speak. I'm not here for overly complicated relationships.

I accommodate around Derbyshire and am also happy to get a hotel or come to you. As long as meets are safe, I'm up for them.