*ABOUT ME*

i’m a chubby, stockily built, light skinned black guy that stands at a humble 170cm tall. i have brown eyes and about medium length dark hair, that i often keep either out in an afro or have styled into drooping braids/twists.

i guess by the average person’s standards i’m pretty nerdy, too. i fit pretty aptly into the ‘extroverted introvert’ category of person, wherein how outgoing i am is dependent on how comfortable i am around you. that matters little when i’m intent on putting in the effort to socialise notwithstanding, though

hobby wise, i’m into competitive gaming/esports, football, a lot of different music genres — from metalcore, indie and pop music to d&b and rap — as well as going out to bars, pubs and clubs. i like the occasional book and watching things too, but my conniving adhd likes to make those things hard to stick to unless i have someone else to share them with (that’s where you come in, right? just kidding… unless… 🙈). lastly, i also have a crippling reddit and twitter addiction.

sexually speaking, i’m pansexual but can only envision myself in a long term relationship with a cis woman. i tend to see-saw between dominant and submissive so you could say i’m a switch, but really i’m a pleaser at heart and get off on my partner getting off so i typically tailor that nature towards my partner’s desires. i’m moderately vanilla, but i do have a few explicit kinks/turn ons like feet. with that being said, though, i’m wholly open to experimentation and discovering new kinks!

*WHAT I’M LOOKING FOR*

ideally speaking, i want the person i connect with through this post to be a woman that’s 20-28 years old. i’m easy going when it comes to ethnicity and body type

right now, i’m looking to connect with someone and play things by ear, online, for days (or weeks if necessary) until the timing feels right to meet up. the nature of our meet up can be dependent on how our conversations go! be it a no strings attached arrangement or something teetering on a little bit more serious, i’m ruling out nothing. i can’t host, but i can and am willing to travel anywhere within London

all i ask is that, as a person, you are emotionally intelligent, communicative, possess a good sense of humour and have some degree of patience. common ground between our hobbies is a bonus, but if there’s little of it, then be receptive teaching me about yours or learning about mine — ideally, both!

if i’ve piqued your interest then please drop a DM with a picture of yourself and a short bit about what drew you in to messaging me. naturally, i’ll respond with a picture back and we can decide what platform to take our conversations to next if you like what you see. thanks for reading and take care 👋