Hi, I’m Jade, recently turned 30, and fairly recently became single. I’m looking for Mr Right, but this time I’m looking in a new way. My friend lives a male chastity lifestyle, and she has convinced me, very successfully, that a GFD FLR revolving around male chastity and orgasm denial is the type of relationship that is right for me. So, if you meet my criteria below, and like the sound of the lifestyle I’m looking for, drop me a DM!
About me: 30, slim but curves in the right places, brown hair. I have a good career, focus on my mental and physical wellbeing, enjoy horse riding, walking my dog, nice food and having a laugh with good company. Kinks: Not going to list them here, as in part I am still exploring what I like. But I know that I like to control a man’s erections and orgasms, I like to tease, I like to be pleasured and worshipped, and I like good sex and to explore new things.
About you: you should be age appropriate (28-40 ‘ish’), in decent enough shape (not looking for a muscle bound god, but you need to be fit enough to join me on long walks and have good hygiene etc). Have your own life, career, ambitions and passions. Single, of course and in the UK. Finally, and most importantly in this case, you should be experienced in male chastity. Men who wear a behind barz belt or have a cage locked on with a piercing to the front of the queue! If you haven’t gone at least two weeks without orgasm, and worn a cage continually for at least a week, don’t bother messaging!
I can’t tell you now what my ideal relationship with my chaste partner will look like, because it will depend on our shared desires and experiences. But it will include me having total control of his pleasure and chastity keys. Maybe I will enjoy unlocking him for sex and his orgasms regularly, or maybe I will decide that he should hardly ever get to cum, and only occasionally get unlocked for teasing. In all honesty it will probably be a bit of both, and everything in between. Especially as we explore and experiment, before settling into our own dynamic.
I find all the possibilities and ways to tease so exciting, I have an active imagination and sometimes enjoy being a little cruel/mean in the bedroom. I will take a moment to tell you a couple of scenarios/stories I envisage enjoying. Unlocking your cage after a while locked, whilst you are tied to the bed of course, and proceeding to gently and slowly tease your erection for absolutely hours, until you are a complete mess of horny begging frustration. Then as I lock the cage back on, I tell you that this was a big teasing treat for you, because now I am going to start you on a longer period of being totally locked, and it will probably be months before I use the key again, so I hope you enjoyed that extra long tease ;) Its your birthday week, so I book us a sexy fancy hotel for a week somewhere else in the UK. Or maybe a whole secluded cottage rented out with exposed roof beams. On the first night I tie your hands above your head, you are naked except for your chastity cage, and after a few minutes I return dressed in your ideal fantasy outfit (stockings, heels and some tight leather maybe?). I tease every part of you as you try and get hard in the cage. Then tell you that despite it being your birthday week, I am going to be a demanding dominant princess, I will wear super sexy outfits all week, and expect you to wait on me hand and foot, massages, plenty of time between my legs etc. Then I whisper in your ear that I haven’t even brought the chastity key with me, and how well behaved you are this week will determine how long it is before I use the key when we get back from the holiday.... doing little mean things like that turn me on.
If you think we could be a match, copy and paste the list of questions below into a DM (no chats) and send me your answers. I won’t reply right away, I’m looking for the one Mr Right IRL, and definitely not any online sexting etc. Please make sure you have good spelling and grammar, and that you send me a message that makes me want to reply/meet you!
Questions: How old are you, where are you based in the UK, and are you single?
What experience do you have with male chastity?
What is the longest you have continuously worn your chastity cage for?
What type of cage do you wear?
What is the longest you have gone without orgasm?
Describe your ideal relationship?
Would you consent to a full FLR, including giving up control of your chastity/orgasms, up to and including never being released/orgasming again?
What fact about you is most likely to scare me off and not reply to you?