I honestly feel like I’m living the dream. I moved to central Europe with him, he’s showering me with gifts and attention as much as I let him and the sex is amazing.

There was a time when I came back to my hometown from university and young men knocked on my parents apartment. They came with their parents and gifts… expecting me to agree to a “good match” right away. It’s probably that kind of attitude that made it sooo much more satisfying when I told them all about my white (then) boyfriend.

Did you guys also get raised to expect us women to just fall on line? That as long as you are well behaved and from a good family a girl was lucky to have you?