Like the title says, the worst part is this guy isn’t the douchebag asshole I normally go for. He’s actually genuine and isn’t a Reddit incel or “white knight” either. I met him at a party last spring. Stellar conversation. Loved his looks and everything about him 10/10. I was more into him and I now realize he was just being friendly. Well he told me he had an on and off girlfriend so I immediately dropped it because of that. Then a few months later he messages me and we talked almost every other day, once or twice a phone call. I fell reaaaaaallly hard. It was nice to have a message from someone I actually really liked. He’s independent, kind, funny, very organized, and very incredibly attractive. Just so ideal and everyone likes being around him not just me. Well, turns out he was just trying to be friendly because one of his friends liked me, which I had no idea they did. And I guess it’s time I got my karma because that friend I had immediately turned him down. I love him and adore him but honest to god I thought he reminded me of my brother. And then it also turns out the “on and off girlfriend” is still in the picture. I had no clue, I had assumed they broke up. The worst part is, she’s not a bitch she’s actually nice so I can’t hate on her. Now I sound pathetic still hoping for a chance. This sucks mega ballz. Plus he’s hard to read and he may be my type but I don’t think I am his, I feel like I come off too strongly and it can overwhelm others and I overthink everything like this entire situation. I know his ass hasn’t given me a second thought. Ugh I’m dumb :/