I’ve been freindzoned by someone and we were FaceTiming every day for 4 days straight for 1-3 hours a night. And then she says “I wanna be really good friends with you but you’re not my type.” But a few days later we’re talking and she says she’s focusing on herself and not gonna date anyone. It’s not my first time in the freind zone and I’m just done being lied to. “Oh he’s just a freind” “Oh you’re not my type”. So im asking what is the freind zone really. Is it a place for where you want them as an option if option 1-etc. isint open?

EDIT: I’ve been in this position before and they have lied to me so I just don’t wanna be lied to again and this would help clear it up. Also idk if this helps but I’m 16m and she’s 16 F