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Friendzoned - no idea what to do.
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So their's this lady, we've been friends for like 2 years. We are both really busy between each of our kids and stuff so we don't get to hang often. But every time we are together, it's great. We joke, laugh etc.. I think about her randomly, and honestly have dated others.

But she's always popping in my mind every few days. She told me the other day that I end up on her mind alot too, apparently she has even had fantasies about me (found that out a week or so ago). ( I told her when she told me about the fantasies, (well one of them) that I would do that and many other things if she'd like to)

But every time we text it's "Hi Friend" (It's like she's making sure I know that I'm only a friend, and will stay that way) And I've been upfront about liking her alot. (then I don't get any responses from her for days)

Now she's talking about stopping by my place tomorrow, possibly. And wants some advice about her job issues, and some other stuff.. (And I'd do that regardless)

The reason in the past for her and me not trying ( was because she was still getting herself together after her daughters father died. was in the same car accident, and was dealing with some medical stuff. Plus she's been having job issues, and is living with her mom. ) So she wasn't in the most alright I'm ready for a full relationship spot.

Now, she's still got job issues. But her daughter is heading towards college soon.. And she's starting to realize she doesn't need to be there as much.

So I don't know what that means for her and me, or what may happen tomorrow. I'm half expecting she'll txt me in the AM that something came up.

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