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How to make fix a friend that feels disconnected
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So I didn't really know where else to ask. I am really bad at this sorta thing...however I will start with the basics.

So pretty much I am part of this friend group. My best friend that I've known for 4 -5 years ago, our other friend who is pretty nice and our newest addition which is my best friends partner. Who is pretty nice as well. So yeah pretty much before in the past we me and my best friend used to talk like most of the time. I mean there was very little days where we didn't and very little days where we didn't have something to discuss.

So lately somethings have happened. They've moved into a new apartment, there attempting to publish a visual novel , also they've starting streaming which has been going pretty well.

I on the other hand got my first job like ever. Its been pretty hard on the hours for me.

Naturally our time hasn't been the best....so my best friend has been feeling disconnected as of late like the don't belong. Which is not the case I couldn't imagine not having are friend group without them.

Anyway I guess I have a few questions soooo..

What are some good things to do to bridge this distance and to make them feel engaged?

Would it be good for me to choose the activity and bring them along?

Again I am a most introverted person so I tend to find these situations pretty difficult. Since I don't want to be a bother, I don't want to seem naggy. In any case sorry for the formatting in advance. If anyone has tips advice on how to help with this...I would be extremely grateful.

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