Hi all, recently found this sub after having issues with somebody who I genuinely thought was going to be a friend for life. We had been friends for years but over the past few months I had realized that I mostly put in all the effort to stay friends. This had happen to me a very few times in the past and as it usually goes, I start to drift away until I completely stop speaking to them.

After recently thinking about all the times this had happened to me, I started wondering about them. I never really know how they are doing because I stopped keeping contact, plus I have no social media (makes it a tad easier to really cut people off). Deep down I do wonder if they had found other friends that they actually treat better and whose actions they reciprocate…