So to begin I don’t have a ton of friends and I’ve known this friend we’ll call him frank for almost ten years now. At the beginning frank was honestly my only friend I would hang out with and stuff also this was start of high school. So it was kinda rough to begin with the whole making friends thing plus both of us were bullied and we stood up for each other. Fast forward to today I got a small group of friends and we were planing on all hanging out together. Me frank some of frank friends and some of my friends. None of our friends has never met each other before. Now over the years frank has gotten to be a pretty obnoxious. Really immature which I am to but he’s a whole he level and he is racist just to be edgy or be funny and it pisses me off. He’s also fully aware of what he’s doing and I tell I’m could you stop but he’s like it’s the way I am. So I get a text from frank saying have you told your friends about me. Which is always a pre cursor to some asshole behavior on his end. I told him basically be yourself but tone it the fuck down. And he said word for word I’m gonna say the n word and you can’t stop me do with that information what you will. I’m over it at this point and idk what to do honestly. We been friends for a long time but I don’t want my new friends thinking less of me.