I’m gonna try and make this short in a way so here are three pieces of context 1) my friend has BPD 2) we have been friends for about 2 years 3) we live in an apartment now with her son

So for about the past month or so my friend has been getting on me about thinking I’m messing with her bf behind her back. And it’s starting to become an issue to the point where I don’t feel comfortable at my house. She had asked me before if I would do anything like that and I told her flat out no I wouldn’t. I think her man is honestly weird and gross and he stinks like hell. Plus I’m happy for her, regardless of what I think he makes her happy. At least I think. Fast forward to the past two weeks she’s been giving me dirty looks and being really passive aggressive to me. Yesterday we were all playing Mario kart and because the screen kept going back n forth from my character to his it was “so cute” and then I was like “no I don’t think that shits cute”. And today out of nowhere she caught an attitude with me for no reason and snatched the controller out of my hand. My own Xbox controller mind you. The way my living situation is set up I have to sleep on the couch but if I had my own room atp I’d just stay in there. I’m tired of being accused and having negative energy thrown my way because of an illness she hasn’t been able to take care of but idk how to go about it because I don’t want to start any more conflict and I wanna keep the only place I have to stay as of rn. I keep reassuring her I keep telling her I’m not talking to her man but it’s like everyday and it’s getting to the point where it’s disrespectful and it just breaks my heart. Don’t get me wrong I know she’s had friends so that to her before but I do a lot for her kids and her as well, what should I do, I feel like I should be given grace