I have a Freind who we where not really dateing but sorta . The problem that comes into play is she will ask my advise on stuf (a example is she will ask my advise about stuff going on with her kids ) .well I'm super honest so I give my advise and opinion.. but then she gets mad because I gave my opinion. She will sum it up to how she dose not really want my opinion (which I don't mind but then when I try to say I don't wanna give my opinion because I wanna just support her emoshonaly she gets mad about that and demands my opinion) .. but if I don't have the same opinion as her she will insist I'm not listening to her opinion even if I reply with I understand your opinion is blank but mine is this and we can agree to not have the same opinion.But then she will say how my opinion dose not matter because I'm not a parent yet (whitch I understand my problem is if I try to not give it she gets mad at me) .I have tried explaining part of autisem is that I am very direct and if u ask my opinion that's what I think u want but her reply is this has nothing to do with autisem and I should just know she dose not want advise and wqnts emoshonal suport .. but when I do that she gets mad at me for not giving advise . It's kinda a no win . I'm not sure what's wrong with me tbh but she gets mad no matter what I do and if I sum it up to well what do u want me to do she will get more mad . Can anyone help or ?? She will insist it dose not come down to soshle cues or autisem (but then her ex boyfriend who has autisem she will blame EVERYTHING on his autisem . Even if he is down right abusive ) .but if I try to explain takeing things literally is part of autisem or not understanding soshle cues like she wants support not advise when asked for advise is apart of autisem she will insist it's not and basicly I'm using my disibilitys as a excuse (even when I try to conmuicate my best and help her ? .