40M. About to be a divorced man. I think all these years I've had this hypnosis fetish. It's something I've been interested in since I was a teen. The thought of controlling someone to use was always this driving factor in my fantasies and what I wanted in my sexual life.
But after finding this sub reddit....wow... The contracts, the way everyone talks about how great sex is now and the relationship, I have this love of using her while she is asleep. But I've always need the "go ahead" from her first...ie a contract. Then revisiting this in a timely manner to make sure everyone is happy. I need that so bad in my next relationship. I'm not sure if I want true freeuse with a partner in the sense of sharing her with another guy physically but definitely online!

When I had a sub in the hypnosis world I did this with her. It was awesome! But I want this is my relationship in my life. To be that free and open with sex, to me, can only transfer done through all other aspects of life. Sharing deep down thoughts and wants and needs. If you can express this with someone everything else may be easy.

Thanka for listening. Love this subreddit. Holding out hope for this kind of relationship. Will be on the lookout for keyholes too. Really really want this type of relationship. Not just for the sex...just all of it.