When younger I was always attracted to older women - something of an age gap kink which has reversed now I'm older. I'd just finished school and was legally of age and decided that I'd take a year doing fun and unserious jobs before throwing myself into my studies: and having been taught to be handy around the house and garden I got lots of pocket-money jobs that way.

A rather glamorous and dominant (as I learned) divorcee I was doing some work for took a shine to me and she could tell that my teenage lust was fixated on her by the way my eyes lingered on her. One day she told me to go into the house to find her after I'd finished mowing the grass, so I did. I found her wearing only heels, stockings and bra, with a whip in her hand. "If you want this" she said "you will do what I tell you". And thus started my first experience with an older dominant woman, who would simply tell me what I had to do with her every time I went round to do 'chores'. I became free use for her and she adored my teen erections, clearly getting off on having the control. It wasn't long before we reversed the situation when my dominant side came out and I started telling her what to do (she loved being a switch) and that was MY first experience of having free use with a woaman.

I went off to do my studies and did some bar tending in a place that was popular with women of a certain age, many of whom were fed up with their husbands or newly single and I often got invited home at the end of a shift. That was when I discovered that there are many women who secretly love being either dominated or being treated as free use without even having to mention it. Many of those were short term affairs but I think word got around that I wasted no time and did exactly what those women craved, I'd sometimes even get calls from someone who had been passed my number.

The concept of casual free use is so ingrained in me now that kind of expect it when I meet someone new and occasionally I've had to explain why I think it's important. I think I've only met two women who it didn't suit or who objected to the idea in principle.

What has been your own experience? Have you alwasy been this way, like me, or is it something you still want to explore, or did you come to it later in life? Have you found many people who genuinely didn't like it?