Hi there! So to start this off, I am black male in his early 30's. Ive tried searching in the past and was ready to hang up the search, but figured i would give it another shot, because you never know. Had some people that obviously didnt read my post and just sends me a message saying they will suck me tonight and be my bottom bitch, etc etc. If i was just looking for some ass.. it wouldnt be that difficult, but what im looking for is much more than that. Some people will understand, some will not. And i do hope to match up with a level headed individual that does understand. Diving a bit into myself, im not sure if i would label myself as bi.. I guess if it comes to it, I'm just not that big on labels to begin with. I wouldn't say I have an attraction to guys, I know that I love women and will always want to be with a woman intimately and romanticly, but I am definitely open to the idea of playing with guys..more specifically a good buddy. I guess you would say it all started with a love/interest in trans women and gradually has turned into a serious interest of habing a good friend i can hang out with, kick back do normal stuff with, as well as getting naked, rubbing 1 or 2 out, and resuming our activities when we're no longer horny beasts lmao. much as my title reads, I'm searching for a friend, with benefits. No 1 nighters, blow and go, none of that. I want to find someone i can develop a true genuine friendship with, that has similar interests with me, but also isn't afraid to be able to whip his dick out while out on a hike and do the helicopter or something fun/stupid like that.

Some of my interests, I love tv. Good shows, good movies. I'm an action, comedy, shit your pants horror kinda guy. Overall I just really look for a great story, and I'll watch it. I love playing video games, let me know what consoles you're on! I'm a Marvel and DC guy. I also love outdoors, riding bikes, hiking, kayaking. Even just tossing around a football or trying to protect my nuts while attempting to play racquetball.. im a social drinker, and would love to have a drinking buddy to sit back and pour up with after a long week of work.

I do have a partner and she will not be a part of this. This is for me and I'd like to find someone in a similar boat as well. Ideally I'd like to find someone close in age to me who I can hang out with after a long work week and pour up a few drinks while we kick back and play video games, watch a movie, or whatever. Would be nice if down the road we can introduce our women to each other and hang out as group occasionally

Now as far as the benefits side of things, I'm open to doing and trying it all! Let's get naked, love, admire, and learn each others body inside and out. What helps get the other off, when and how. Sharing the intimate moment of Sexual exploration and openness with another friend would be such an amazing thing for me. I am definitely more of the dom type. So would be best if you were a little submissive in the sexual sense, but also do not want to deter you if you don't fit that bill. We can always figure something that works for us both. If you are on the submissive side tho, bonus points if you are into dressing up. Ive grown more into that the past year. First timers, do not be shy either. Im not looking to rush things, or make anyone uncomfortable. I want a lasting friendship we can grow into and we will have time to explore all our curiosities together.

What I'm looking for: race does not matter to me. Im definitely open minded Age: 30-45 on the high end for me. Preferred if you have a gf/wife, but not a requirement. Obviously discretion would be key and an important practice. I just want to find someone who is serious and searching for the same. Looking for ONE partner for long term friendship. I do not care if you have a small dick, average dick, or a huge ass dick. As long as we vibe well and can have fun together, it'll be a good time! I am in the N. Fort Worth Keller/Justin/Haslet area. So would be great if you were nearby, but not a deal breaker.

I apologize for this being soo long. But hopefully I've peaked someone's interest. If that is you, please do not hesitate to hit me up. Please no bs "hi", "what's up" or "lemme suck yo dick". If you are serious about wanting the same, you'll send a legit message and we will take it from there!