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So in a month or so I should be returning to my regular work. That means travel, late hours and, frankly, some loneliness.
Until fairly recently I was quite happy with my vagabond lifestyle. Fast living, spending, partying, and frankly sex. But now I am kinda done with that. I still love my job, and it is probably what I love the most in the whole world, but I feel I don't have to live like that anymore.
I want something steady and to give a proper relationship a shot. I want to commit and have something with meaning. Open up and be nervous and can count on a partner.
Now, I figured i could list all of my greater qualities and all my bad ones through texts or casual chats. However, I feel it is worth mentioning here that I do not know how feasible a relationship with me is.
It is sorta like that song, "With or without you" by U2. It details a man's frustration of wanting to be with his SO, but in doing so cannot follow his passion in music. And vice versa. With or without her, he will be unhappy.
I almost think that is the situation I would put you in, if we were to hit it off.I will be moving every 6 months, maybe just 1-2 month breaks between contracts. Sure I could take time off, visit or you to me. But, it is rather unsustainable, innit?
The point of online dating is the effort to meet up asap, but if I were to keep moving and always presenting a challenge to meet...Maybe I will just cause you more heartbreak in the long run than anything else.
I mean, it sounds exhausting to just type out.
I want to talk this through with you, if you think this is doable or not and why and why not. It would mean a lot if we were both on the same page starting off anything.
So with that in mind send your asl, see if we hit it off and what can be done if we become serious.
:)
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