Hello FAD community, I am posting this and looking again for someone. I had some amazing luck with another person here on Reddit and we spent a great deal of time getting to know each other and eventually actually met up in person, spent a few days together had a great time but unfortunately I wasn't feeling it personally.. and now we are just friends and that's okay.

I learned a great deal about myself with this experience, and well let me be completely honest and say in regards to finding a partner I have to be physically attracted to them and I am also very introverted but can swing being social and fun but not for very long. We went rock climbing together and I would absolutely LOVE to try that again! also nature walks are amazing too. and, apparently I am a church boy from what I am told, I'm no longer Christian but I was told that I definitely give off those vibes.

I've been described as Mr. Perfect, handsome and fun and people tend to like me, I make friends easily and I am also very intelligent so I do tend to get in my head a lot and overthink. I also tend to avoid talking about my feelings and bottle them up unless I really trust a person. I am an INTJ on myers briggs but resonate more with INTP, enneagram 5 (investigator) and probably neurotic on the Big Five personality types if you want to make things simple lol

I'll be completely honest and vulnerable here, I have social anxiety and sometimes struggle with depression (father is bipolar) and that I also cannot afford a place on my own and live with my brother and our family and that makes me very insecure so I just want to get that off my chest and be honest.

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I truly enjoy intellectually stimulating conversations and I love anything to do with science/engineering and I have to be completely transparent here, I really dislike hearing things about crystal healing, manifesting, pseudoscientific beliefs basically. last person I was with would talk about astral projection and things like that and it is a huge turn off and I really dislike it. I think Tarot cards are fun but I don't believe in them, scary ghost stories are all fun and cool but in the end everything can be explained scientifically but it is fun to imagine sometimes..

I enjoy working out, going for walks, anything scientific, Solar, alternative energy, gaming, guitar/music,psychology, I love voice clips on the phone but video chats make me nervous but I will do them, phone calls are cool too lol and if we do get together and go out I like to do something active and fun it is very difficult for me to feel comfortable and safe with someone.

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I am also extremely respectful and courteous so I probably won't make any advances unless I am feeling really confident I am bad at picking up the clues/signs and some girls move WAY too fast on the first date so I'd like to spend more time together first. I would almost prefer verbally acknowledging it as to dispel any uncertainty lol

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I also do my own side business in electrical, furniture assembly, anything handyman related and I really enjoy it I'd love to hire a few people and really see it take off more. Other than that, I am VERY easy going, chill and go with the flow I am trying to do better to get out more and be more social I don't want to look back on my life and regret any missed opportunities for fun and new experiences.

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If I can be selective here, I am attracted to Blondes and red heads curvy or slim body types so that's my preferences and that's completely okay to have. Other than that as a guy, I am just looking for a nice girl and up for any personality type really. I tend to get a long better with extroverts, I get nervous around quiet girls haha anyways I look forwards to hearing from whomever thanks for taking the time to read :D