Intro: Yeah… yeah.. yeah… another one of “those” posts, I am sure you have seen bazillions of them. Gamer looking for gamer, nerd/geek looking for same, player one wants to find player two, otaku seeking waifu. ( ok maybe not that last one but it kinda fits in the wheelhouse ) What is different about my post compared to all the other ones? I don’t know I’m not reading them… BUT I can tell you that if you bother to read through this whole thing ( and its LONG be prepared, way longer then need be ) then by the time you finish you will know for sure 100% whether or not you will message me and whether you think it will work. There is no way you will reach the end and be like hmm… should I message? There is tons of stuff in here and I will start with the most important thing that way you don’t have to keep reading if it doesn’t look like it will work out.

Quickie: Before I get into the meat of things let me just give some quick background info. I am white, 6.2 and 230 pounds. I have college degrees in information technology and work for the government. I work a lot, 12 hrs a day 6 days a week, I will get to why later on. I am financially stable and my ideal night is a night in cuddling watching something or playing a game. I just kind of typed this out as I went, honestly it SHOULD be more organized but its so big… and I got lazy so.. sometimes I jump from category to category lol.

Relocation: The first big issue and what might be a dealbreaker for many of you is relocation. In the past 1-2 years I have been looking I have been ok with moving to somewhere if I found my special someone to build a life with where-ever they may be. My parents have been offering me a parcel of land for years but I never did anything with it because I wanted to be able to move if the need arose. Well, my love life hasn’t exactly been taking off and I got some good advice to live in the now not in the future of what could be, so I have decided to settle down here. I have accepted their parcel of land and am building a house on it. The reason I am mentioning this is because you would have to relocate over here now since I am no longer able to move. I am not about to drop a few hundred thousand Gil building a house and then up and leaving it lol. I understand it’s a big issue and if its something that you can’t or simple don’t want to do, I completely understand and I wish you the best. Feel free to ask me any questions on the house/land if you need to. I am in Fresno California…. Ugh I know… not that great of a place but I’m an introvert and spend a good chunk of my time inside anyway so its fine lol. At least being in the center of Cali it’s a decent drive to anywhere in the state and lots of good weekend getaway locations though.

Distance: Ah… distance distance distance how I hate you. Sometimes I feel like I have met amazing people and the distance just destroys things. One person I would even describe as being near perfect for me was literally on the opposite side of the world and after a few months’ things started to fall off and it was sad. If you are outside of the US I just… don’t see it happening especially right now with how messed up the world is. Getting a visa and visiting places outside the US just puts too much strain on things. If you are outside the US but you have a visa already and are willing to visit in a reasonable amount of time, I guess that’s ok but, in all honesty, you’re fighting an uphill battle. Even other states I would still feel leery about but your welcome to try if you are willing to relocate and come visit first. I have no problem coming to you AFTER you come to me first. I am not falling for the you come here first anymore ><. I would love It if you were in California, really doesn’t matter the spot exactly.

WARNING: if you are reading this I had to cut almost HALF of what is on this foreveralonedating post because they limit the characters to 10000, and my original post was like…. 18000 lol… If you want to read the full version just go look at one of my posts in the other subreddits, that is all! thanks, you are missing QUITE alot of info though you really should go find another version!

Gaming- ah… the subject I could literally talk the most about. I could put pages of info about this, and anime of course but mostly gaming. I spend most of my free time gaming. I have a pretty massive physical collection all the way from nes-ps5 and almost everything in between, It is definitely worth quite a bit of Rings. I also play on the PC. As long as you game the rest doesn’t matter. It doesn’t matter if you are a PC player or a console player. If you are a co-op person or a single player or mmo person it doesn’t matter. If you prefer specific genre’s it doesn’t matter. I love all different types of gaming and enjoy talking about games I have never played even if they don’t particularly interest me. I enjoy the culture of it all. If you want me to play with you great! I would love nothing more then that. If you want to play stuff by yourself and prefer I watch instead that is fine too! I will have one arm wrapped around you and the other holding a phone to look stuff up for you. Personally, I prefer RPG’s the most, action/adv, platforming, souls, a really good story in a visual novel, actually really… most things, I don’t gamescriminate. I don’t tend to do pvp type games though, but if that’s what you enjoy I’m happy to pick it them up, even……. Sports games….. “shudder”………… It is all about having fun together, as long as we are doing that then it’s great. I also spend a good chunk of time watching anime, all different types of genres. We can talk more about specifics on games and anime later of course. There are definitely some arcade machines in my future purchase history but I’m trying to make sure I can afford building the house which is going to cost a few hundred thousand Zeni so I’m holding off till later on them.

DealBreakers: This is more for you rather than me as I don’t really have many deal breakers. The only thing I would say is obviously relocation has to be a thing, and physical intimacy has to be a thing as well, outside of that there really isn’t much for me. You should be a gamer though. I have tried talking to people that are not gamers in the past and… I don’t know it just seems to fizzle out over time. My last couple posts didn’t require it but this time I think I’ll go for only gamers and see how it works out. I will include the fact that I am not into social media at all on here since it turns some people off although I am not sure why. Anyone that I care to keep in contact with I do with talk or text. I have a small group of 10 close friends that I see and talk to. No facebook/snapchat/Instagram, twitter, ticktock etc etc. You can google my full name and nothing comes up lol. Heck I barely even use reddit other then an occasional looking for love post or random video game research. I am not political; I am not religious; I do not drink, do drugs, or smoke. I do not spend a lot of coins outside of purchasing games… lol or something else for my collection. There is no drama in my life. Children for me can go either way, I know that’s weird but its true.

Hidden: Did you happen to find the hidden gaming references I threw in throughout this entire thing? Super sexy if you did :p

The end: So here we are at the end. I have my flaws, I am not even close to perfect in any aspect, and I should definitely eat better and lose a little weight. That being said I am happy, I am healthy, I have my life together, I am financially stable ( well for the next year anyway lol…. ), I am drama free, and I am a very kind, nurturing, and ( insert many other wonderful words here ) person. If you think you would enjoy a life in the country surrounded by a loving family and small close group of friends then send me a message. ( I say country but our land borders the freeway and its like a 10 minute drive into town ) Besides that too many people have sold their land out here so its not that much country anymore anyway lol. There is still lots of farmland but heck there is an ulta beauty plant nearby, and an amazon warehouse. 2 day Prime delivery PAH, try 5 min WALK delivery. I just head down there and be like hey where’s my package. I’m kidding by the way so please don’t fall for me for my amazon delivery… but there is indeed a warehouse like 5 minutes away by vehicle.

If you are still reading this you either 1. skipped to the bottom or 2. are either A. interested in me B. bored and figure meh why not keep reading C: a bot. Hey I treat all people fairly bots are free to message me, makes me feel not as bad if I can say I got a crap ton of responses even if most of them are bots…. After reading all this, you should kind of know if I’m your type of person or not, please send me a message or a chat with some information about you and I will respond, just please don’t send me a few sentences. I will not respond unless its at least a paragraph. I am not trying to make you write an essay like me, but I need to separate you out from the bots and people who just don’t care. If we hit it off we can find some other way to talk, via phone, or a messaging app preferably discord or something else. I'm pretty shy in person and will take some coaxing to open up, and I am way out of touch with serious relationships. If however you can get me to open up and love me for who I am though, I will always respect, love, cherish, and take care of you.