The last time I posted here, I had my wall of text put into perspective by someone who told me it was too long and tedious to read. Therefore, I'm trying a different approach now without talking too much about 'unimportant' stuff like hobbies while still trying to be detailed in regards to what is important to me; let's see how this turns out.

What I am: 186cm tall, average-built. I don't have a sixpack, although I wish I had. My biceps is lacking. But I think I am callipygan (; I run a lot and participate in several running events (5k, 10k, half-marathon so far) throughout the year and play football. I'll never let myself get out of shape; it's important to me not only because I like to stay healthy and good looking for myself, but also because I feel that my future partner deserves someone handsome, someone that takes care of himself. Someone attractive. I also have tattoos on my arms and calfs and plan on getting one last one on my back. Can exchange pictures immediately if you're interested.

I'm social and outgoing, I love spending the evening in a pub or a bar, talking; I'm also an introvert in the sense that I need alone time to recharge and to unwind, for my projects and for organizing my thoughts. I am empathic, I'm funny and childish, I'm honest and loyal. Although I'm a misanthrope, I'm positive: I think that as a couple, you can be so strong, you can lift each other up, you can overcome any obstacle. I like to think of us as a team. I like enjoying beautiful moments together, sharing the intense feelings they make me experience. I have so much love to give and I'm looking for a committed relationship with a woman I can give it to. If we work out, I'm 100% yours. I'll be there for you, I'll try to be the best me I can be and always strive to give everything. I'll have your back and push you, if you need it.

I'm romantic and intense. I love spending time together, just the two of us. Dressing up fancy, going out for candlelight dinner, the opera, dancing, cocktails, a rave, a stroll in the sun, holding hands – everything that puts the focus on you and me alone. I'm a passionate lover and my love grows stronger over time, as far as experience shows.

Things I am that might be red flags: I'm vegan (although, from my side, this doesn't have to be an issue/I won't make it an issue, see below). I'm not a travelling person/not keen on touring the world (I have specific destinations I'd like to see but the whole travel thing is not really my lifestyle), I'm not adventurous, (doesn't mean I'm not active), I need a certain amount of alone time, I have a high libido (see below), I am an atheist, I am childfree by choice.

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What I'm looking for:

– A committed, monogamous relationship. A companion who I share everything with. A romantic partner that is also my best friend. A woman who holds me when I cry and who I can hold in return. Someone who has no problem with me being 'weak' and telling me everything will be alright while stroking my head. Someone who is as passionate about me as I am for her.

– Settling down together; a quiet, (sub)urban life. Apart from a year or so in Rome, I'm planning to stay here forever and buy a nice home together. I like the thought of living 'family life' with a garden and cats, but without the kids. Sleeping in on weekends, enjoying breakfast, do some gardening or work on solo projects, then spend time together.

– Someone who is also childfree/fine with never having children.

– Someone who is as physical as I am. Touching is very important to me. Cuddling is important as is kissing. And of course sex. It's one of the most important things for me, one of the most beautiful forms of intimacy and I want to enjoy it as much as possible. You don't have to be extremely kinky (neither am I, I think, although I'm very open to experimenting and trying out almost anything together); the definition of Vanilla seems to vary, but I think it's safe to say that for me, it has to go beyond that at least by some margin. Most important, however, is sex-positivity and enthusiasm, a drive to initiate and enjoy ourselves in this way. I need to feel desired to feel loved. As is obvious by now, I have this desire myself, of course: I always want you to enjoy yourself and make you feel like a goddess (as trite as that may sound by now).

– Because appearance matters to me, to a degree: Someone who is not overweight or very curvy. For the record, as stated above, I'm far from being a supermodel myself, but we all have our types and I think attraction cannot be compromised with.

You don't have to be vegan and I won't get on your nerves about it. While this might be an issue in relationships, I strongly believe it only becomes as big as a problem as you let it.

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If you find any of this appealing, I'd love to hear from you!