Been single for 3 years after a rough break up and dealing with the resulting depression. I'm working on making myself into the best partner you could ask for but I can only do so much on my own, its time to start sharing my journey with someone awesome! I'll be honest, I'm looking for my forever. I want to laugh and dance and be silly and fight and make up and explore all with someone who doesnt take themselves too seriously and can see themselves enjoying a happy child free life.

Few things about me:

I'm pretty independent. I have travel around the world a few times by myself. I have strong beliefs that I hold to because they were cultivated through years of my own research and experience but I am also always changing and willing to entertain any sound arguments and change my world view according to new information.

Travel is big for me. I've lived in a few countries and have a lot more to see so I hope your passport is up to date.

My next big adventure is going to be Vanlife. If that's something you've ever thought about doing let's chat!

I like kids but I do not want my own. I have some amazing nephews and I want to spoil them forever but I dont think I'm wired to be a parent.(also economic and environmental and moral choice)

I was raised in a christian family, if you understand that dynamic I'm sure we will have countless hours of fun stories about our families.

I love to cook, go for long meandering walks, concerts, museums, history, politics(but I'm trying to quit), exploring, friends, my family, meeting new people, and experiencing new things.

I'm pretty leftist in my worldview (maybe a tad marxist in theory) and I dont believe that any top is off limits and I love hearing other people explain their thoughts and opinions. I learn so much by listening and engaging with people who see the world differently.

I wont lie and say I'm conventionally attractive. I'm 6'3 and overweight but through intermittent fasting and working out plus yoga I've lost some weight recently and continue to get in shape. The depression really lit a fire under my ass for that!

If anything I've said has caught your attention lets chat! I live in Kansas City. You're from anywhere but I dont want this to be online forever, let's chat for a while and see where it goes.

I'm looking for something real. Are you?