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The Basics
29, 5ā9ā, DDF, HWP (dad bod?) but fit and slowly slimming. Redhead. Social drinker, not a smoker. Work a 9-5, own a car, pay my own bills. Social nerd. If Myers-Briggs matters to you, ESTJ, Though the last two are pretty flexible. If star sign does, we probably wonāt work out. Iām honest, easygoing, compassionate, sarcastic, ambitious and upbeat, Funnier than I sound here. Hopeless romantic, cuddler, looking for something meaningful. Seeking a long term relationship, but Iām also potentially open to more carnal situations to pass the time otherwise.
Interests
Magic:the Gathering is my primary hobby in life ATM. I try and travel 3-4 times a year for it, and play as often as I can. If this is too nerdy for you we WONāT get along. I would like a partner who is at least interested in the game, though your level of play doesnāt matter as much.
Video games are fun, when I have time for them. Bad at FPS, more of a single player RPG/adventure kinda guy. Lots of Movies/Some TV shows are enjoyable, though all day binge watching isnāt my style. Not a big sports guy, but I can keep up with the conversation. Great mind for trivia. Not as up to date on music as I would like, but itās a big part of my life. Love exploring new artists.
In the process of losing weight. Currently sitting around 230( /-5), SW 265, GW 200. I love swimming, and do that for about an hour ~4 days a week. I donāt mind hikes (Eugene/Oregon has many great spots) I love floating on the river, and I participate in other activities infrequently. I can usually be convinced if you have something in mind.
Lots more!
Compatibility
Sex and shared interest are important to me, hopefully you too. I am truly seeking something meaningful, hopefully the fact that Iām bringing up sex doesnāt directly put me in the āfuck boiā category for you. Iām just want to be upfront and honest about my wants and needs.
Letās talk about the title. I am exclusively looking for someone who is also interested in ANR relationship. For the uninitiated, ANR stands for adult nursing relationship. Itās something I have tried a few times before, and I know itās something I want in a partner. Iām happy to chat more about it if you have questions.
On the subject of sex: high drive, looking for similar. My history is pretty vanilla, but Iād like to explore, with a partner who is interested in doing so. GGG.
Agnostic. You donāt have to be, but donāt come into this trying to change that.
Be ambitious, be compassionate, be honest.
You donāt drink? No worries! Smokers might be a Dealbreaker, LTR wise.
Physical appearance matters, but interests and compatability matter more. Active and healthy is important regardless. I do enjoy and prefer curves for what itās worth.
I have no interest in kids at this time in my life. Down the road? That may change. But Iām in no rush to be a dad any time soon. A topic for a MUCH later date.
Happy to chat with anyone, although Iād like to find someone close to/in Oregon. But who knows, after all?
Ideal age range is between 23 and 35. 21 is a hard limit, and Iām not opposed to chatting with 40 , but I seriously doubt our dating compatibility.
After Thoughts
If itās up, Iām still looking.
Happy to share pics once we get going.
Prefer chatting elsewhere, whenever you feel comfortable doing so.
If we donāt click, just say so. No offense will be taken.I wonāt ghost you if you donāt ghost me.
Iām honestly an open book, AMA! I may not share more personal things immediately, but Iām happy to talk about anything.
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