Hi! I'm taking a chance on romance and hoping it will be worthwhile. I'll begin by saying that I’m looking to build a meaningful connection with someone—one that grows into a committed, monogamous relationship where we can build a life together.

I'm introverted, lighthearted, shy yet curious, sensitive yet silly, with a thoughtful and serious side. I aspire to live a peaceful and fulfilling life—one where I can travel and immerse myself in all the world has to offer, yet still savor the comfort of quiet, cozy days at home. My interests include landscape photography, technology, video games, true crime documentaries, horror, history, astronomy, and anime. When it comes to music, I enjoy electronic, classic rock, and hip-hop/R&B. I'm politically left-leaning and atheist. I don't drink, smoke or use any drugs. I consider myself demisexual and "vanilla" when it comes to intimacy. I'm plus-size and around 5'6" (167 cm) tall. I have long hair, dark eyes, and always wear glasses (see: here.) I currently reside in the southeast USA (get me out—I'd more than welcome a change of scenery!)

I crave meaningful conversations, moments of silliness and genuine affection—someone I can look forward to talking to and spending time with, and who will become an important part of my life, with that feeling being mutual. What are the chances of finding love from a Reddit post? Probably slim, but never zero.

I'm looking for someone who's introverted, nerdy (or nerdy-ish), single, childfree (meaning no kids and no desire for them), monogamous, emotionally available, stable, intentional about building a committed relationship, politically left-leaning, non-religious, trustworthy, patient, empathetic, enjoys frequent communication, and ideally shares some of my interests. I’d like him to be between the ages 25 and 31, able to meet in person within a few months and regularly afterward, and a citizen of the USA, Canada, Europe, or New Zealand (as those are the only places I’d consider relocating to.)

I'm not looking for someone who's unsure about what they're looking for, still hung up on a past romantic interest, recently out of a relationship, divorced, anti-m arriage, promiscuous (whether in-person or online), or carrying an STD. Please respect these boundaries and refrain from messaging me if any of this applies to you.

If this resonates with you and you think you might be the one I’m looking for, please send me a private message (not a chat.) Tell me a bit about yourself, include a photo of yourself, and the phrase "mandolin rain" somewhere in your message so I know you’ve read this post in its entirety.

(I won’t respond to low-effort messages or messages from newly created or throwaway accounts.)

I’m looking forward to getting to know you. 🎕