Hello singles of Reddit! 25 year old pansexual male here hoping to find the start of something truly special. I am looking for someone within the US, I myself live in California. I am 5'6" and 170lbs with long black hair and glasses. I'm a bit more feminine than your average guy, and the traditional relationship dynamic just isn't for me. I'm looking for someone else to take the lead of the relationship while I take on the typically more "feminine role" of a homemaker. Or be your boywife as I like to call it. I'm a very fun-loving nerdy goofball who is extremely affectionate and loving. I personally find myself most drawn to feminine or androgynous presenting people from anywhere on the gender spectrum. I'm someone who enjoys the little things in life as apposed to grand adventures; very much one to "stop and smell the roses" so to speak. I'm also quite the goody two shoes; I do no drugs, smoking, or drinking.  

Music is easily the most important thing in my life. I've been singing ever since elementary school, and I still love to today. I've even been paid to sing at senior centers multiple times last year. When I enjoy music on my free time I enjoy listening to full albums, just closing my eyes and vibing to whatever I'm listening to. An album is an experience, it's art for the ears. And an album is like a guided journey a band gets to take you on. I love rock, brass bands, some metal, and lots of alternative. Ghost and Oingo Boingo are my favorite bands.

I've found I am most happy when I can devote myself to someone I love. It gives me a true purpose in life, I feel rather incomplete all on my own. I want to make you feel special, comforted, appreciated, and always be there for you. I love giving physical affection, I'm all about cuddles, kisses, and holding hands. It’s my main love language.

The future I see for myself in my dreams is one where I work part time to help pay for bills as needed, and the rest of my time is spent being the homemaker, cleaning, fixing, running errands, cooking, and getting things ready around the house. All the important things that must be done day to day to maintain and improve a home. Maybe there could even be kids in the picture one day. Sadly for most of my life this dream has been greatly discouraged by others. Time and time again I am told "that's a woman's job, go be a man". But I know I can make my dream a reality, that somewhere out there in the world is someone interested in exactly what I have to offer. And we'll make a beautiful future together.

As for my life right now I'm just working part time while also going to community college for an associate's degree. Really just focusing on making ends meet right now.  

Some hobbies of mine include taking walks, either just through the neighborhoods or hiking out on a trail. I play some PC games such as Deep Rock Galactic and Phasmophobia, but not all that often. Maybe once or twice a week. I collect some lego sets, and Transformers figures. I love animated movies and shows, mainly ones that are adventure or action oriented. My favorite animated movies are Vampire hunter D Bloodlust and Lupin III: The First, while my favorite animated series is Batman the Animated Series. I do enjoy comics and graphic novels, as well as some manga. My main form of entertainment other than listing to music is probably watching video game let's plays on Youtube, and I love listening to the Distractible podcast. My favorite movies are Raiders of the Lost Ark and Spider Man 2. Fandom-wise I absolutely adore the Five Nights at Freddy's series and its lore. I enjoy keeping up with all the interesting theories the community crafts up. I've also been getting into the Sonic fandom thanks to the movies. Yes, I'm a big nerd lol. 

There are only a few deal-breakers I have. I am deathly allergic to cats, and get bad allergies to most indoor animals. Pets could only be outdoors with me around, and absolutely no cats. No smoking or drugs either. Yes, this includes weed and vapes. I have asthma and any kind of smoke will make it flare up. I'm a progressive leftist, so I'm not interested in anyone right of center.

Thank you so much for taking the time to read all this, and I hope to hear from you soon if I seem at all interesting to you. Let's make this the start of something beautiful.