Hey hi hello. So I should be asleep but I got distracted with an anime rec... I might be awake but messages don't disappear. Send one away if you want.

So let's get the show in the road. Let's get my description out of the way, since type plays a role for people. Physically I'm like a human bear, without the hair. Big(but 2025 goal to trim down a bit least I can do for my future person), tall(6'2), physically strong(I can and will pick you up if requested). I'm warm, fluffy, and snuggly. I love cuddles. Short hair usually, well kept beard. No tats or piercings. But likely will get tats in the future. "Meaningful" stuff. Not that mid life crisis stuff.

I'm a 33 year old Canadian guy, from Vancouver. I'm on the ace spectrum. If you're curious think cupid. I'm a pretty easy going guy, and pretty emotionally strong/stable. Even with my share of trauma. I love to listen and will listen to you. I'm an emotional pillow, always there to listen and let you vent if you need it. Of course if you want to get comfortable before that I'm fine with that.

I love animals, and have 2 cats. I also enjoy the outdoors, but don't touch grass as much lately. I blame the weather. I enjoy and watch some Anime, so if you got some recs shoot them my way. Or wanna chat about it. While I like gaming, I'm god awful usually. My favorite genres are horror, survival, party games like lethal company. Also play some RPG(bg3) and used to play pokemon A LOT. But still keep up with it a little bit. I played Scarlet. Occasionally play OW2 as well.

I love food, if you cook or bake and wanna share your creations with someone. Right here, I'm your man. Share your favorites with me I'll enjoy that conversation :D

With conversations, I'm not the best at starting, or holding them. But I will try my best to keep it running. I don't want a 10 minute conversation and then ghosting. Willing to speak on vc, or about any topics you wish. I have a very far limit, you can push my buttons as well, I'll tell you when it's too far. If you include the word "butterfly" somehow in your message you're automatically in my good books. Favorite creature.

Now let's get to what I'm looking for in someone. A feminine or afab person. If you're okay with me, I am okay with you. Single, and looking to start something monogamous and hopefully permanent My stance on children is open. Don't want any? Good with me. Want to have 1. That's fine. Want to adopt instead? Sure. Obviously open to LDR, likely have to start that way, unless you're somehow within the lower mainland lol imagine??

Shoot me a DM if you wanna chat ask me questions whatever. I'm honest if I find someone and you're not them, I'll tell you. I hate hurting, but ghosting hurts more.