One aspect of what I'm looking for is hard to nail down: adventurous, not a goodie-two-shoes, no laws before morals. Someone with some spunk, some attitude, some edge. I am not looking for a walking disaster, I'm looking for someone who can let a little bit of that Freudian id out in the right situations e.g. trying magic mushroom with reasonable precautions. I want to be surprised; I want to you to occasionally make suggestions that cause me to raise an eyebrow.

What I'm Looking For

• Good communication skills.
• Kindness.
• Intelligence.
• An open mind.
• Mutual attraction.
• Similar set of moral values.
• Compatible sense of humour.
• Someone unafraid of occasional physical exertion and accompanying bumps and bruises e.g. up for mountain biking or maybe some krav maga.

About Me

• I'm 5'10, 175 lbs, white.
• I'm at the gym for 2 hours 3 times a week. My build is starting to go from average to athletic. I track my energy and macro intakes. I do mobility, weights, core, and cardio.
• My favourite book is For Whom the Bell Tolls, my favourite movie is Sicario, and my favourite band is The Strokes.
• I am naturally a night owl.
• I love going on dates, but I hate dating.
• I am open to starting a family.
• I am sarcastic as f***. It means I like you.
• I volunteer 1-3 times per week doing poverty alleviation.
• My last job was as a Senior Director in a tech company.
• I own my condo outright and have no debt.
• I have a 1,500 sq ft patio that is awesome for entertaining.
• I like video games, audiobooks, and podcasts.
• I am always trying to improve myself: knowledge, skills, emotional growth, fitness.
• I drink and use cannabis in moderation.
• I'm handy around the house and great with technology. The last thing I fixed was a microwave and before that a clothes washing machine.
• I show my appreciation to my partner through physical touch and acts of service.

My Red Flags

• I have anxiety and depression. I am high-functioning, so it rarely holds me back e.g. it didn't stop me from getting my law degree and MBA simultaneously or achieving success in my professional life. Worth disclosing either way.
• I quit my last job due to burn out. Money is not a problem, but it weirds some people out nonetheless. Job hunting sucks…

DM me if any of this resonates with you, even if you don’t match up perfectly with what I’m looking for. Tell me a little bit about yourself and use the word “grapefruit” in your chat message (so many people don’t bother reading). Ask me any questions you have, I'm comfortable talking about ANYTHING. Don't be shy, the worst-case scenario is we chat and it goes nowhere. I’m also happy to share a SFW selfie.

Hope to hear from you soon.