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19 [F4M] Looking for long distance relationship that will take it's time
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NamelessMahName is a female age 19 looking for a male
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Hello! I hope you've had a wonderful day/night by the time you've read this :)

You may call me Nameless, and as you've seen, I am female, 19 years old, and looking for quite the unusual case when it comes to a relationship.

Before anything, I would like to explain why I'd like to start with a long-distance relationship instead of a close one.
I honestly wish I could meet someone on a dating app and see if our vibes check out, and I would love to kiss someone instead of feeling overwhelmed with emotions like confusion, thrill, happiness, dread (yep, you've read it right), and anxiety. Unfortunately, doing so would make me feel that things are going too fast, and my brain would shout at me to stop while my body would wish to run away.
I recently found out that I am Demiromantic, which means I have a hard time forming feelings if we aren't close or have a good emotional bond. And not to talk about my anxiety and autism. It can take a few months, even years.
It's not the type of relationship for everyone, I know this, but I hope this will reach someone who might be willing to try this out :)

About you: The ages I am looking for are a bit older than me (20-29), and I'd rather you'd be taller than me (I'm 5'1). I'm also looking for someone who's not too far away from my time zone (GMT area). I'm not fond of one-liners, dry responses, and so on.
I would appreciate it if you were open with me and took the time to help me learn and get to know me. Boundaries are important both for you and me, I'll never cross the line, just as you'll never cross mine.

I do not expect attention 24/7, but communication, texting, and voice calls are crucial. I would appreciate it if you would tell me when/if you're busy.

About me: I am 19 years old, soon to be 20, and my time zone is GMT 2.
I love to draw. I would be happy to work in the industry, as an animator, director, and storyteller, as I love to create stories and tell them! I also love TTRPGs like Dungeons and Dragons, Vampire the Masquerade, and more!
I will also add that I am somewhere between being an Atheist and Agnostic. I have brown eyes, and long black hair and I am chubby. I am also quite emotion-driven. I am a person who deals with anxiety and has a hard time understanding emotions and social cues, I'd appreciate a bit of confirmation if I ask for you to help me understand something I didn't understand before.

If you've gotten here, then don't let this post be alarming, I am an extremely people person! I love to talk and hang out.
But then again, I hope you'll understand that I am very anxious and had my fair share of bad experiences with people.
And to add to that, I'll say that I won't tolerate bullies, abusers, and such.
I know you are human, and I hope you know I am too. I want us to have a genuine connection, a friendship, and more. That being said, if it wasn't clear, I am not up to playing games, I am here for a serious long-term relationship.

If you have any questions, please send me a message. Thank you for reading and have an amazing day/night!!

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