I'm being melodramatic when I say that I'm looking for someone boring because, with the right person, it won't be. It's more accurate to say that I'm looking for someone who's content with the mundane. A typical day for me involves going to and from work and, with the little cognition that's left over, perhaps watching some tv, playing a game, reading, or getting lost in YouTube. Somehow I'll end up staying up too late, I'll be tired at the onset of the next day, the cycle repeats. On a good day I might try to study or otherwise learn something new - these endeavors are usually related to technology in some fashion . Most adventures I have are mild - going for a calm nature walk, or perusing a thrift store. Life already feels busy, I want to rest. Unfortunately, it's also lonely though and it feels like love is only afforded to the confident, assertive, and adventurous.

I'm looking for someone who I suspect routinely feels on the outside looking in, who's content with a simple and largely domestic lifestyle. Someone who considers themselves more on the introverted side, and is kind, curious, quiet, modest, humble, observant, reserved, and stable. Maybe you have some unpopular opinions? I do too. Busy and loud spaces make you uncomfortable. Unknown situations give you anxiety so you strategize as much as possible before making your move. You tend to overthink and overanalyze by nature. When you like someone you want to know precisely how their mind works and with every probing question, observation, and discussion you add a component to your schematic. Eventually, words aren't necessary but words are all that's available here.

I'm not particularly interested in more pen pals. I'm trying to get something accomplished here, so if you respond then there should be intent at making something real. I don't care what we talk about, everything we say will be novel and therefore interesting. I want to know everything anyways, from the most mundane choice to the deepest thought. Ideally, we will both be open to discussing anything.

My preference would be to exchange pictures early to establish mutual attraction as, unfortunately, this is important to me and I'm painfully selective as it turns out. That's always awkward, but let's both agree up front that's it's nothing personal. Here's one of me so that you can decide beforehand. Additionally, in the vein of dealbreakers, you should know that I vape incessantly so please don't respond if you find this distasteful.