This election has made me feel defeated like a bad aram game but not hopeless. I still have a vision of love. I'm looking for someone to carey me through life. Sing with me. Be silly together. Be romantic. Make my fantasy a reality. Be obsessed about. Support one another. Make memories. Be my all. Can you be that hero? Because if you can, then all I want for Christmas is you. I believe it can be possible one sweet day. Love takes time but if we are both genuine people looking for someone to share all that with then we belong together. Just dont be a heartbreaker.

I'm 33, 5 ft 7", Trans/Non-binary, She/her/they/them, Taurus, Asian, Chubby, Almond eyes, Big lips, High cheekbones, Huge forehead, Huger thighs (I'm being funny but not really), college educated, Liberal leaning, employed. I think I'm funny if you didn't catch my Mariah Carey puns. I would say I'm pretty and have a good personality but I'll leave that for you to decide on your own.

What am I looking for? I'm looking for someone to talk to, game with, check in with, someone who cares about my wellbeing, etc. Vice versa. Preferably close in age or you won't get the nonsense and references I make. Ideally someone who shares my same passion for human rights and the community. I can only ask and expect what I would be willing to give in return. The normal lets do it together as a team relationship typecast. Being supportive is very important. I respond best to a gentle approach and don't like it when people cannot reciprocate communication and effort.

Why am I single? Being trans is not easy because you're either seen as an experiment or a check mark. Not cool! I just want someone who can accept me and the affection I can provide. I also have standards so I can't solely blame others. I'm not delusional or a narcissist. My standards are simple though.

Be attentive. Be caring. Be open minded to my culture and gender. Be kind and compassionate. Have a job because I do or at least be working towards something sustainable. You don't need to be making six figures but don't be a slouch because honey I'm telling you now I work for a non profit so if you are a booger miner then this isn't going to work. You don't need to own a home, I would prefer it if you didn't because ideally, I'd like to stay in the Midwest but for the right person and connection, I can also see myself relocating. Physically, you can be average looking and bodied and I would be fine. You do not need to wear brand names or designer names. It won't impact how I view you. You don't even need to drive a fancy car. Personality matters more to me, but physical attraction is also important so I won't sugar coat that importance. Mentally, be stable. I don't care if you have a diagnosis, but be honest about it so I can make an informed decision. I'm the rip the bandaid so we can talk about it and work through it type. Emotionally, please be available. I've wasted so much time talking to men who thinks they are emotionally available when they are not. Often times they just want the emotional validation and gratification and company without the weight and substance of a relationship.

So now that you have seen my silly side and my not so silly side, if you read to the end, then you my dear are either a curious cat, bored out of your mind, or possibly my cup of tea. So if you are looking for a hero then maybe that hero has been inside you all along. Or maybe its me and we can help one another. You don't need to be a solo hero. We can help each other. Afterall, if you carry me when I fall, I will carry you when you do. So if this all spoke to you, lovers assemble.

XDXP