42yo man living in the CA 831 area.

Appearance: Mixed race (white, spanish, native). Long dark brown hair like my ancestors. Brown eyes, and thick eyebrows. Mustache and beard. 6ft tall with a linebacker's shoulders. Big spoon energy, you won't be cold in the winter, lol.

I'm on the heavy side, but I'm on a weight-loss journey, lost 50lbs, feeling much better. Intermittent fasting has worked well and I've recently invested in workout equipment to expedite the process. I enjoy healthy eating, lots of salad and veggies. I could easily go vegetarian or vegan with the right support.

Homelife: I live with my retired hippy mom who's my best friend. She's a talented jewelry maker and I love her dearly. I transitioned her business online 20 years ago and make sure every need is met. I run all the daily homemaker tasks myself as part of my daily routine.

Employment: I'm a self-employed software engineer who works at home. I only work a few days per month and earn enough to live life care-free (basically semi-retired). I have a lot of free time and I'm saving for retirement.

Hobbies & Interests: I'm a musician and producer who's been low-key successful and has performed at festivals and shows all over the bay area. I don't make a lot of music these days, but music is one of my favorite things in life. It allowed me to blossom as a young adult and find a like-minded community. People use the term "jack-of-all-trades" but I truly mean it. I love to study, learn and DIY. I would love to go on adventures up and down the coast. I've been a recluse for far too long.

Personality: I'm a curious INTJ Virgo with ADHD tendencies. I’m an achiever with high personal standards when it comes to my work and art, but I live a loose and carefree lifestyle in general. My chosen hobbies and career path really force me to focus which helps ground me. I'm mostly introverted but enjoy being social in special situations. Music has helped me come out of my shell.

Past Relationships: My last relationship was over 10 years ago and it lasted 6 years. The breakup was amicable and we parted without drama.

Terms: Feel free to reach out and start a conversation. If this post is still up in the future, then I'm still looking.